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i was dating this girl for awhile in a serious relationship. i loved her she loved me (said she did at least). so alls well. we get into a fight a week ago, cuz she wanted to be friends with this guy joe, who she had been seeing before we dated. i said it would upset me, a fight pursued. it ended with her saying she didnt want to be friends with him if it upset me. she wanted to be alone the next day, so i was like 'aight.

next evening i call her, she sends me a text message saying we should break up. finally get her on the phone, she says she doesnt want a serious relationship, and blah blah blah. so the day after that, she admits she was at joes house and spent the night in his bed. they didnt do anything, but still upset me. so she says she doesnt know what to do.

in a day she realizes she does want to be with me. comes over telling me how much she loves me and wants to be with me and is happy with me and how im her other half and how i complete her, all this blah blah blah. so were fine for 4 days, all the time her telling me stuff like that. last night we get into an argument while drunk, she goes outside to her car. i go get her keys so she cant leave, she stays outside. go back outside to check on her later shes gone.

talk to her today she was at joes house. shes already kissing him and holding his hand and stuff (she admits to it) and ready to date him. saying how he is her "dream guy". this is less than 24 hours after she says how much she loves me. less than a day after breaking up with me, she already has another boyfriend.

i loved her, and couldnt even begin to look at another girl. and she does this to me. the weird thing is, when we got together she told me "dont tell me you love me then break up with me saying you were wrong and you dont" which is the same thing she did to me. girls are wack.

kthxbye

Sorry to hear bro. When I get into relationships I give it my all, but in the back of my mind I remind myself that she could still screw me over. That way I don't get my hopes too high up. Go find yourself a good woman...if you're not ready then keep yourself busy. The more time you have to think to yourself, the more it hurts.

yeah dude women are wack.. That kinda sounds like the same thing with me.. an my ex.. she got nuts.. an it just hurt to see her chaneg liek that.

but think about it, be glad it happend now and not later.. do your won thing an move on.

Also when girls get drunk, thats when there real emosions and wants come out, they cant help it.

This post has been edited by Digndoug: Mar 5, 2005 - 6:25 PM

women just just love the douchbags i guess. same thing happened to me i was dumped for a douche

Hey! We're not all self absorbed little twits...i could use another word but im gonna be nice. Aparently she wasn't wrapped to tight to begin with if she did this to you. She had a good thing going for her and then she flipped...I'd say that was stupid. I don't know what kind of girls you guys find but i would never do that. Anyhow your better then her so don't let her drag u down. Show that you can have a life wth out her, and truthfully if she were to come back to you after this guy and tell you she made a mistake and yor the one....i would be like "hey...you had your chance and you ran of on me." But that's just my opinion...but really not all girls are like that. Some of us actually care and are looking for good guys, and don't wanna play these stupid little head games. Anyhow, sorry to hear about the heart break hope you find some one better.

Latz
~Christina~

from what all my girlfirends tell me, the biggest no no (and this is SO true with me too) is no not be all up in their grill 24-7... nothing kills romance faster than dominering behavior outside the bedroom... nobody likes to be suffocated mabey not the case with you but if you seroiusly give grils/guys their FARE share of space it pays the divedinds...

im tryin my best to keep myself busy, the more time your busy the less time to think about it and be upset. and i love the girl so would love her to come back to me, but at the same time i dont. this is her second time making a mistake if she decides thats what it is, and a really big on at that. i dont want to have her come back to me all sorry, then I have to choose to pass on the girl i love or not.

Love or not, forget bout her.. most women wont change like that.

Don't worry dude. She'll realize what she's done when it's too late and she'll be upset. Then you get to make 'the Decision.' Do you take her back or not? I wouldn't suggest it.

Anyway, my girlfriend and I broke up a few months ago, she's happy as a lark now and I'm glad for her. I just had to lose my best friend in the process. But I don't care about him anymore, and I don't even think of her. I'm starting to date others, and I'm really happy. You'll get through it, just think that there's tons of people that have had similar experiences and have come out on top.

Kid this is a simple one.. she's already sleeping with the... F'ed him already ..... females are all crazy and selfish .... i know its hard for u right now cause u think u are inlove with her.. but trust me ur not... as hard as this might seam .. just tell her its over... and end all contact with her.... take all her stuff of hers that u have put it in a garbage bag... and handed to her and say nothing... if she asked about ur stuff tell her keep it and say nothing else..... this girl is playing u like bad... and ur over their taking it with no lube... man up and get ride of that hoe..... don't need her lots o better women out there then her....

mac has spoken

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Wisdom.

This post has been edited by jgreening: Mar 6, 2005 - 2:04 PM

we're not all like that.. i promise. i've been with my guy for well over 3 years, we're still going strong, i wouldn't ever dream of leaving him and i know he feels the same. so i promise you, there ARE some very decent girls out there, just wait, don't go searching, cause if you are looking, you'll usually end up with someone just like her. wait til she comes along, and by fluke.. you'll totally fall in love! be happy buddy, we're alllllllllll here for ya

only reason ur not like that... is cause.. let me shut up..... ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY

We are not! Don't say that unless you have a reason for every one of us.

oh but i do ... women are just natrual carzy ... ture there are diffrenet levels of crazy .... i don't need to tell u all the carzy stuff u done.. but u know u have done them.... now think about all the women u know aren't they crazy in one way or another... ???/

Maybe we get crazey like fun crazy when we go out, but you can't say we're crazy when you guys do the same exact thing that we do. When you do it we don't run around saying all you guys are nutz!

Ohhh mac i desperately want to finish for you...

nope not fun crazy.... and yes guys do the same thing... thats the diffrence between a guy and a man .... a real man trest a women right ... but ever few women know how to handle that....


"It only take one bad bitch to trun a good man into a dogg " ....

we once had a thread on why women are crazy.