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i know exactly how bad things get when laying in bed... try listening to music (not related to love, relationships, girls) while you are trying to fall asleep... just have it on quiet so you will actually be able to fall asleep.... it takes your mind off of everything else

find a good hobby... something that is very tedious and has nothing to do with girls. cars, model building, rc cars, computers, a sport, working out... something that takes your mind off of everything else

Working out... W00t! It def works to take your mind off it.

well u gotta look at it this, can life really get much worse? answer is yes. Life does go on but your lucky to even be where you are. Like everyone else said, find a hobby, yes it sucks but theres not much u can do.

What was the reason for the time apart? DId she give one? remember you're only 19. Many more fish in the sea. Yeah you're lonely and feel like poop, but it will go away. Look at it like you know what her loss and move on; don't give false hopes and live in the past cause that will def keep you down big time. What really works for a lot of people I know is go for a run, a long run... Run till you can't run any more then walk and run some more. Just keep running... Its your own personal alone time adn time to think and give yourself good pep talks about how to get through it. Thats all you can do, tough it out and endure...

As for the sleeping thing, not mcuh you can do. The mind is evil at night time right before bed

tylenol PM owns for these situations, just dont get addicted, lol. Take 2, get a shower, lay down and you'll be out in 10 minutes.

She just graduated, She's comin into the real world, gotta full time job interview, marriage scares her, she said she was just confused and needed time apart.

This post has been edited by 6th_celi_vert: May 23, 2006 - 4:52 PM

Your talking like your back together by using the word "was". Was is a past tense word meaning she isn't anymore, Is is a present tense word meaning she still is.

I think she has a good reason to separate, but honestly I would have told her "I'll postpone the marriage or end the engagement if your afraid of marriage but lets work this out". I too say there may be hope, but either way just do something like hang out with friends, work out, get an extra job or just go for a drive. Me personally, I go for drives when I'm in a bad mood or just feeling lonely. I just like to site see and I normally just think my problems away. Plus no one can tell you to turn the radio down when your driving alone . I haven't had many relationships and the ones I've had weren't long at all, but you still get attached and like being with them. My last one was only 5 days long -_- I was over her in a day. She was just an immature brat, I'll find someone someday. BTW, What does her parents have to say about all of this?

This post has been edited by JonCars17: May 23, 2006 - 10:12 PM

I was dating this girl for a while, things were going awesome, out of NOWHERE she stops talking to me. I later found out she had a b/f the whole time, she cheated on him with me.... wtf... now shes going out with this drug dealer. This was six months ago. My bench went up 50+ lbs, deadlift went up 70lbs and squat went up 90 lbs... woot...

Heartbreak: Nature's steroid.

and u snaped that coke dealer of a boy friend in half

I dated a girl for 4 years, then it was over. I am still not over her after
almost 2 years. I met a girl or 2 but still think about her all the time,
and am really not intersted in anyone else. She has moved on long ago,
I can't seem to.

Things to keep in mind. Women want a guy that dosnt need them. If you guys are ment to be togather, then she will come back. Shes right, she needs her space .. GIVE IT TO HER...

You dont want to be in a relationship while she is figuring out what she wants, you'll get hurt more.

Just start working out, surround your self with friends.. Try to pick up some new hobbies..

also you are young, expect this to happen atleast 5-10 more times before your married.

Oh all women are fukling nutts..

I have been with my girl for about 5-6 months.. and I think we both alreayd need time apart to fiugre out what we want..

good luck man, it happens everyone./.

I know how you feel. my first real relationship ended abruptly after 2 years and it was hard.. but it just took time. and I know its not helpful to some, but give it to God.

if you actually want her back, i will tell you that the easiest way to make a girl want a guy, is to act like you don't want anything to do with her. lol

in my last couple break ups, one guy was obsessed with me, he was psychotic (seriously) and would call me 50 times a day.. i was with him for a year, and automatically wanted NOTHING to do with him, i got over him in like a month
the next guy i was with, i was crazy about and we broke up, he won't talk to me and has moved on to another girl, and all i can think about it how i can get him back, and that was almost a year ago...
if he was to start obsessing over me after we had broken up, i'd probably not give two ****s about him

anyways, my point is... one of the easiest ways to get her to want you back, is to act like you've moved on (80% of the time anyways )

Ah the reverse psycholgy game. Me and the ex GF played it
many times, Quarters would have been a better game.
Next week is the apex of the corner of my life. I hope I can turn this
piece fo crap around. (my Life, not my Celi).