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i hate to admit it, but it's Definitely the best dating advice i've ever heard.

And the whole co-workers thing really never works in one way or another. (my sideline story is only made to make you laugh at my own stupidity, lol) My only way of being serious is by making jokes. Sorry. Life is too short to waste being serious all the time. It's also too short to be fishing in a one fish pond, go cast out into the sea my friend.

EDIT: Mayo is bad, and so is jail bait.

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 12:03 PM

no hehehe i am not a testosterone driven ass guy,
i think i have gotten to the point were you want to try starting the big thing,
also there is no cameras on our store hehehe



you know its weird,,
she just called me and told me, " i love you"
and i said oh ok,,,, and she is like, " why is that reaction"
you usually tell me "i love you too," she said..........

uh okay... I've figured out this much so far: (i'm not being sexist here, this is just General Peoples Thoughts on the sexes, its a fairly accurate stereotype, but a stereotype none-the-less; nobody take offense here.)

Chicks are horribly emotional creatures. They have that whole "love & bond" thing for all kinds of stuff. Just loving and motherly by instinctive nature i suppose (idfk exactly why, but it's generally true) And even when a chick wants to let go, they have that whole "love & bond" going for them and makes them say things like that, because they don't wanna be a total ass like us guys (usually) tending to be, or at least we come off that way.

Sometimes chicks will just say things like that to spare our feelings (i suppose) because when they don't Totally hate us, They don't want us to feel downed. Because chicks get downed, depressed, or emotionally offset so much more often then us guys; they don't want to pass of the hurt that we're usually responsible for dishing out.

and i don't mean that all of us guys are asses, but if my gal ask me what outfit i like better, and i say i don't f-ing care; then she'll be [in some manor] upset or at least emotionally offset. the comment means more to her, than it does to me. But Death could ask me what shirt i like better and i'd call him homo, and tell him that unless it was covering his face, it dont matter because he'll still be ugly or something. And we would laugh about that. It'd be funny. no offense. No emotional offseting. The comment wouldn't be remembered after about 10 seconds. Us guys just are not as prone emotionally.

Do you understand what i'm trying to say? I know i'm not doing a good job of it, but does this make a bit of sense?

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 12:20 PM

i got lost there,,,,
i mean cuz i never was an ass to her.....

yeah, that was a general Guys VS girls statement.

Bottom line, is that she may be saying things to humor you, and to spare your feelings. However actions speak louder than words, and if her body is mashing someone else's body, when you are their capable of mashing bodys with her, and she chooses someone else to mash with instead... Then it may be time to go find a new body to mash with. or date. However you wanna word that sentence....

That was not meant to be dirty But your earlier word selection of "Freaking" would have sounded insanely nasty.

bottom line: from the details that we've gotten thus far, it sounds like she's trying to get out; without hurting you. Unless you got other evidence/facts that says otherwise, it may be time for the next step. As crapy as it sounds, and as much of an ass i am for saying it...

so i shouldn't say anything!
just start looking for someone else?

Really, I'm the last person that you should listen to, Anything that i tell you will wind up saving you heart-break and pain; because i've had to learn myself the hardway. As we' all have on some level or another. Some of us just don't give up until we're living out of our cars or behind bars, (ect) and it's no way to live any part of your life, ever.

I'd say to play off that whole "Friends" crap, w/o hanging out with her. pass her calls when you can, or get loaded and talk to her about anything that's not related to ya'll. Like cars. Pullin that whole "friends" thing (so i've been advised) will make them bored and yern for more, or make them walk. Eitherway, it makes short work of the problem.

Okay, first of all, you should be asking a chick this, not a guy about this, because well, guys can only speculate.


Second of all, you went wrong in your first post when you said "let" as in "Should I let her" blah blah blah

So here's the rundown, from a girl's perspective, and probably one who knows women better than anyone else on this board for just Oh So Many Reasons
1) You don't "let" her do anything. She's not even your girlfriend so not only do you NOT get to say what she can and can't do, you also don't get to ask her nicely not to. She's going to do what she's going to do and the notion that you have the authority to either allow or disallow something is absolutely, well, laughable. I get that it's kind of a different deal with latin dudes than with plain old white guys (somewhat) but if you want to look at it from that perspective, well, she's not your wife. You don't get to say what she can and can't do.
2) She's your boss? That's a train wreck waiting to happen for you, my friend. Steer clear. If you like her that much, get a new job THEN ask her out. It's just a super bad idea to get involved with your boss. It's just not worth it, unless you enjoy an ass-load of drama and high maintenance sh*t in your life, in which case, have fun!

you know, you brought a new point to the post,,,
i really dont get it why people say that a boss-worker relationship is full of drama,,
to tell you the truth we have been like this for one year, but she likes to dance a lot,
even though she doesnt goes out that much,,, once every 6 months,,,,
i would like to tell the whole story,, but it seems toooooo much,,,
i am sure you will be surprised of the story,,,,



you know what, lots of friends have told me,,,
don't pay a lot of attention to girls,, the more you ignore them,
the more they look for you, i have tried it, and it really does work.

i'm going to say......this is a celica site......if you are asking for girl information on a car forum....well you are just looking in the wrong place

This post has been edited by playr158: Aug 18, 2008 - 1:00 PM

Agreed with playr....

Unfortunetly most of us spend our time in the garage, witch puts us in the proverbial "dog house" with our chicks, or leaves us having to make things up, or down right regulate on the situations But one way or another, Most of our girlfriends/wife's probably spend a fair amount of time during the day cussing us

Rather we all want to admit it or not

^ agreed.

now, heres my 2 cents ;p

lol. but forreals, this sounds like a potential bad ending. my supervisor is a cute one, we've hung out, but when other people in my department started accusing her of playing favorites store management came in and said 'i told you so, now quit it.'

how much of a thing do you guys have for one another? a few dates? a few parties? how can she tell you she loves you when you aren't even within a relationship where you can exchange feelings/thoughts/etc about one another? no offense, but was she under the influence when she said it? i've been in the supervisor/higher authority situation before and i got out of it quick cuz she had a crazy ex...

but anyways, its not about her. its about you. what do you want? i haven't read through every single respond on this thread, but it seems like you are saying what she has done and not what you actually want to see happen.

i just stay away from the party girls. they have continuously broken my heart. the whole dealio with her freakin other guys? since you are not with her, all is fair game. hell, if you were together i'm sure she would want to go dance still. i just don't think its cool for that to happen when you're together though. my ex loved to dance. jesus, i don't wanna go in on all my personal shiz but it just makes sense. she would be dancing and i'd be getting/mixing drinks and guys would come up and sandwich her. now, from the boyfriend point of view, its pretty bad to see your girl dancing up on some strangers at your party. its cool for girls to dance, but when homegirl is getting really into it. hmm. lets just say that it pissed me off to see that and was the basis of a few arguments.

also, where exactly do you work joe? the whole boss/employer relationship thing depends on what kind of job and the number of coworkers IMO.

unless you can find a girl who likes to work on cars or drive

My last two > in the garage mwhaahahahah

well, look,
she has a little girl, and his ex, just dont lets us be together,
and she has dance with me but i have never seen her dance with my friends until friday, that is the thing,
i thought she was only going to dance with me.
i just want to be with her,
no she wasnt under the influence when she said that,
it was right now, 2 hours ago, she is at work and i am at my house,
we exchange feelings and all that cuz we have been like that for a year,
but its nothing official yet!
we work at Shoe store, our store is big,
number of coworkers is, 8, 4 man and 4 woman,
we really have not had a problem at work,

1) she's already got a crazy ex?
2) it was supposed to be a "date"?
3) you're not even ever been official and ya'll are talking "love" w/ each other?



4) you work at a shoe store? Like Al Bundy? Just playin

There's gonna be drama. Expect it.

Ah - this changes everything. I don't care where you are in your relationship/not relationship - if she's saying that and she dances that way with other guys [I have to assume it's really "freaking" and not just some normal type "freaking" but I'm into the Goth scene and our "freaking" goes well beyond most others so IDK] then that's not cool unless it was the first time and she didn't know.
I still say let her drop, leave her alone and see where she goes with it. The easiest way to get a girls attn is to pretend you don't care - works everytime I'm afraid.
I also have no time for BS games girls play so I tend to say fcuk it alot.
Keep my comments with a grain of salt tho there be wisdom in these words

If there are girls involved, there WILL be drama

Sorry girls

Does Not!

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 3:04 PM

I agree...You already know what the general guy's response is going to be (I mean it's posted all ove this thread, but even before you posted this up) being as you are one yourself. So asking someone who's been on the other side of this debate will help you out alot more than if you ask other guys about it.

and yeah, like Griffgirl and D-man just said, some drama should be expected when dating women (no offense to the women on here).

But we're not encouraging you to date men though!!