 ahh a question to everyone!, workplace dating???? |
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 Dec 2, 2004 - 2:29 AM
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 Enthusiast  Joined Jun 29, '03 From canoga park , ca Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%)  |
ok so me and this girl have been hanging out at work all week... and i really like her shes such an awesome girl. just amazing.. shes smart, really nice, shes funny and just yea.. oh yea and shes really hot way past super hot. but the dilema is we work together.,,, and i dont know if i should tell her that i like her. i dont wanna mess up the workplace or our friendship. today i bought her chicken nuggets and i put gas in her car. i think that was a sign enough that i liked her. but she really liked it and told me how sweet it was. i dunno guys im stuck.!? last in work realtionship i had, ended with her cheating on me with 9 guys. please help me..
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Dec 2, 2004 - 2:40 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Mar 18, '04 From Portland OR / Vancouver WA Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Ive only dated someone I worked w/ once b4. It was kinda fun now & then cause we had to pretend like nothin was going on haha. Anyway it didnt get serious or anything & he actually ended up dating & marrying another co-worker haha...
I think office dating can be good, but you gotta be sure it doesnt put ur job @ risk........You said the last girl was dating 9 other guys???? theres only 7 days in a frikin week! How the hell did she ever pull that off lol This post has been edited by amysmojo: Dec 2, 2004 - 2:42 AM --------------------  |
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Dec 2, 2004 - 2:41 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Nov 4, '02 From Hecho en la Republica Dominicana/Living in NJ Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
don't do it.. don't mix work and play.. to many girls out there to mess up your paycheck over..
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Dec 2, 2004 - 2:43 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jul 19, '04 From Los Angeles, CA Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
Don't just tell her "I like you." Invite her out to dinner or something, talk with her, etc. Don't just spend money on her, or she might use you. If you do end up going out, don't let people at work know.
BTW, what is your job? |
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Dec 2, 2004 - 8:04 AM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 29, '03 From canoga park , ca Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
hmm... well thak you for your reply's i did not get to tell her. i seem to be drunk right now. so bare with me. i feel as though i ruined my chances. shes the girl of my dreams.i just got to tell her.. my point is that she seems to be changing the subject everytime i talk about realationships.. were as before she didnt. she was coool with it. so what can i say to make her want e. i think i may ****ed up gettin so faded. but 3 4 shot screwdrivers may do that. botttom line is what can i do to let this girl know that i want her?
edited for drunkeness! sorry bout that This post has been edited by shadycrew31: Dec 2, 2004 - 3:45 PM |
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Dec 2, 2004 - 8:13 AM
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Enthusiast Joined Nov 4, '02 From Hecho en la Republica Dominicana/Living in NJ Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
QUOTE(shadycrew31 @ Dec 2, 2004 - 8:04 AM) hmm... well thak you for your reply's i dd ot get to trll her. i seem to e drunk right now. so bare with e. i feel as though i ruined my chances. shes the girl of my dreams.i jujst got to tell er.. y point is that she seems to be changing the subject everytime i tasll about realatiodhips.. were as before she didnt. se was coool with it. so what can i say to make her want e. i think i may ****ed up gettin so drizzzled. but 3 4 shot screwdrivers may do theat (4) oth the. botttom line is what can i do to ake this girl know that i want her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 [right][snapback]215761[/snapback][/right] just tell her you want to twister her out... you'll be suprised how well that works some time... but while you say stand 4 feet away cause when it doesn't work.. you don't want to get bitch slapped.. at work..lol -------------------- |
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Dec 2, 2004 - 8:15 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Feb 10, '03 From Connecticut Currently Offline Reputation: 11 (100%) |
Depends on how close u work with her. If by chance you guys dont wokr out and things are weird, are you going to dread going to work everyday? I'd advise not putting gas in her car thats like giving her money and she'll hang around you for the wrong reasons.
Are you guys going out seperate from work? If not just ask her out on a date. If she says no then oh well you arent going anywhere with her. -------------------- |
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Dec 2, 2004 - 8:18 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Mar 19, '04 From Scottsdale, Az Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
I dated this girl at work, and i told her not to tell anybody becuz they gossip alot, but she opened up her mouth. its funny 5 years later people are stay asking me if i dated her. I always denied it. its like nobodys business. If your happy and shes hot bro, i say go for it!
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Dec 2, 2004 - 3:50 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 29, '03 From canoga park , ca Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
supersprint and mad mods i thank you for the comments. im just gonna say hey wanna go out tommrow night. so yea i cant seem to remmeber anything about last night at all. all i have is my edited drunk post. finlanda gets you goin man. the only thing i hate about vodka is the after taste in the morning.
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Dec 2, 2004 - 3:54 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
well id go for it if i were you. its completely different i feel when u work in an office but u work at blockbuster right? so theres no harm in it
-------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Dec 2, 2004 - 4:09 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 29, '03 From canoga park , ca Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
true but i dont know ...i think i said something stupid last night and pissed her off. i wanna go see a movie with her but we work at blockuster so that might be dumb. i lost all my game when i moved to la. i think its what happens when you live on your own you lose your game.
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Dec 2, 2004 - 4:19 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Aug 20, '03 From Annapolis, Md Currently Offline Reputation: 5 (100%) |
QUOTE(shadycrew31 @ Dec 2, 2004 - 9:09 PM) i wanna go see a movie with her but we work at blockuster so that might be dumb. [right][snapback]215939[/snapback][/right] HAHA no thats the best, I asked a girl out to geta cup of coffe somtime, an she works at a coffe place. lol |
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Dec 2, 2004 - 4:39 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Sep 10, '04 From san diego Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
damm and i thought three was a crowd 9 is a gang bang
workplace is tough if your going for it make sure you going to be with her for a while...i dint think you just want to hook up then look at her all week |
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Dec 2, 2004 - 5:44 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Nov 13, '02 From So Cal Currently Offline Reputation: 3 (100%) |
i date disney chicks all the time. its a great place to meet 'em
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Dec 2, 2004 - 10:54 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Apr 22, '04 From Rhode Island Currently Offline Reputation: 3 (100%) |
im dating a cashier i work with
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Dec 3, 2004 - 1:48 AM
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Go for it, but take it slow, so if you realize it and for real, they you can end it befor it gets to far to hurt your job.
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Dec 3, 2004 - 8:45 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Sep 28, '03 From Bloomington, IN Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
I've done the work thing. Here's some great advice a friend gave me
If it works, don't f*ck with it. If it f*cks, don't work with it. -------------------- NASA/SCCA RX-7....currently under the knife
92 Civic hatch B16 - Sold 10th anniv RX-7 - RIP The Slow Celica - Sold...and then crushed crushed due to street racing. Quote from Seinfeild: George's Boss reading a magazine: "People magazine's most beautiful people. Oh and a Celica...nothin wrong with that!" |
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Dec 3, 2004 - 6:43 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 29, '03 From canoga park , ca Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
hahaha thats funny. i still dunno how to bring it up and let her know how i feel. so im just gonan sya hey i like you just like that randomly.
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Dec 3, 2004 - 7:00 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
hang out with her outside of work first before saying that
just be like hey what you doing tonight and when says nothing you reply with well why dont we go hit up a movie or something its easy like that -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Dec 3, 2004 - 7:17 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Mar 23, '03 From New Orleans Currently Offline Reputation: 5 (100%) |
Dont do it, trust me been there done that. Stay away from it
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