jezuz, what an akward time.. Options

[Valo666]

i had the most nervous/akward time of my life today. My ex and i broke up about a year ago, we have talked maybe..3 times since. Every time we talk she always explodes at me and then blocks me on msn or hangs up on me and doesnt talk 2 me for a few months. Any ways, its been buggin the hell out of me. Pretty much after we broke up, she shunned me out of her life. Like she wants me as no part of it what so ever. It really bothers me that for 8 months of my second last year in highschool and my frist serious relationship, just kinda..get forgoten about. Ive been trying to be her friend since we broke up. So for the last month or 2 ive been trying 2 figure out what happened, that makes her want to shut me out of her life. We broke up cuz apparently i was gettin to serious. Any ways, so today i was talking to a friend of mine and she told me to just go out there n talk to her and get all this crap figured out. So i freak out and get in the celi and drive to her place(she lives next city over). So im freakin out the entire way there, im like shaking cuz i havent seen her in sooo long. Any ways, so i finaly muster up the balls to go 2 her house. I pulled into her driveway, park, waited for like 5 min to calm down. Finaly went 2 the door, rang the door bell and her mom answers. I asked if she was home, nope..she moved two more cities over into residence at her school. So i leave, head to the local coffee shop and give her a call on her cell. So she picks up and we talked for about 2 min cuz she had to go to a res. meeting. So im still waitin 2 hear back from her, but it was sooooo akward to talk to her for the first time in like a year. Any ways, it was just sooo weird. Any one else had somethin like this happen to you?? Ill let u guys know what happened when she calls back.

[forkee]

wow.....u still like her, huh

honestly if she keeps blowin u off like that, just leave her alone. thats what she really wants but just doesnt have the guts to tell u. plus its not healthy for u to keep getting shut out like that after u keep trying to talk to her.

goodluck man...

[Digndoug]

I think you should really forget about her.. women will come an go.

My ex did however call me a month ago, saying she was back in town. She moved abck to NJ.. and said called left a message saying she wanted to meet up or somthing.. havnt talked for over a year, but she like loves me still.. like not in a sexual way, but just because i was there for her and with her for a year an half in a lot of hard times.. and im such a great guy blah blah blah... Never got to meet up with her, but talked to her for a bit. It was wierd, but felt good, cause It was a sign of relief.. That I really dont have any feelings for her anymore.. and I could talk to her as a freind and i was fine with sometime meeting up with her.

Id say dontr stress over it, If she comes back to town say you would liek to meet up and just talk or somthing, but dont get crazy of it and her.

[Valo666]

wow.....u still like her, huh
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I still like her as a friend, nothing more. I havent talked to the girl in like a year, ive seen her 3 times since then. 1 time at a car show, one time at her house cuz she told my best friend i got her pregnant just b4 we broke up(she was lying, thank god), and one time when i was helpin her friend's bro work on his car. Shes a great girl, sexy as hell, but i dont still have a thing for her, ive been with my current gf for 9 months comin up on the first, and i couldnt b happier. Im actually thinkin of perposing to her at the end of the school year, we r gonna go for a trip to ireland and finland(places we both wanna go n can stay for free). And to put it in perspective, we have been together 9 months, this time. We have been going out on n off for the last 4 years or so.

[soulshadow]

Shes trying to break you and your current GF up. I say stick it to her and ditch that bitch. Your gonna be more happy down the line. Girls like that only want your attention, but they don't give a **** about you. They wanna play, but they ain't gonna stay. Simply put, shes now a friend nothing more, nothing less. If she's not happy about it, tell her to find a BF who can stick with her nonesense. Cause you don't have time to **** around with her.

[macavely]

MOVE ON .. forget about the girl... shes moving on with her life... stop letting her have that kinda of power over you ... sounds like she was yourfirst... .. if she was look at it like this.. you get to have a new one....


ADVISE FOR ALL YOU GUYS...
if a girl dumps u .. you get to get a new .. better one...this world is fill with so many fine women ... see one go talk to her.. wrost thing she could say is get away from me.. is she does.. NEXT ..

[95gtschick]

i had the same issue... couple of years ago, my boyfriend moved away to a different province, things were great between us when he left.... but then he stopped calling, and one day i called him and he just swore at me, and told me to never call him again.. then like 8 months later he apologized, talked for a few weeks, things were good, then the same thing... now he just refuses to talk to me. i really don't care since i'm sorta engaged to a much better guy now.. but yeah things like that really do confuse me, i finally let it go... it wasn't that i still liked him or wanted to be with him, i was just confused and he was a really good friend.. but oh well, i'm over it, and i'm sure some day you will be as well.

[BlackSTX]

Read your post and see how silly it sounds. No offense. This girl obviously doesn't want anything to do with you. Some people don't like to be friends after breaking up. You should forget all about her. Good luck in your current relationship.

[soulshadow]

i had the same issue... couple of years ago, my boyfriend moved away to a different province, things were great between us when he left.... but then he stopped calling, and one day i called him and he just swore at me, and told me to never call him again.. then like 8 months later he apologized, talked for a few weeks, things were good, then the same thing... now he just refuses to talk to me.  i really don't care since i'm sorta engaged to a much better guy now.. but yeah things like that really do confuse me, i finally let it go... it wasn't that i still liked him or wanted to be with him, i was just confused and he was a really good friend.. but oh well, i'm over it, and i'm sure some day you will be as well.
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Honestly, I meet a girl a while back during spring at an annual confrence and although we had a fun time touring Yosmite in CA with a bunch of other friends. I can't seem to come up with anything to say to her if I called her up. I mean WE LIVE in different states. Shes in the north and Im in the south. It's not like I can say hows the weather? It's like so impossible to carry out a conversation, when you don't even see her face! Wat the heck>? Ok, Long distance relationships just don't plain work. Were all carrying our lives back and forth and if we don't get to hold hands with the person were going out with, it ain't gonna work>! PERIOD. PERIOD. I take it that u slept with her b4? Perhaps thats whats making you hold on to her. Personally she will come back and hunt you later down in life, when your married.

"Sex without love" LOL, I remember one of my college friend writing an essay about this. Ah , brings back memories.