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[Celica_Fan]

There is a girl I really like I have known her for awhile we talk on the phone, chat on msn and txt each other. We talk for hours on msn and she seems to get jealous when I say I like brunettes coz she's blonde I really don't mind either blondes or brunettes. The other day some w**nker that hasn't seen her for about 6 months sees her again and says he likes her and he came and saw her and he got really drunk. He seems like a complete arsehole she says lots of her guy friends like her it's pissing me off coz I like her alot not faking this bs like they seem to be. She's going to this guys house he seems like he just wants sex from her and to get really drunk she is my friend as well. It's pissing me off I feel if I see that guy he will get a black eye or a broken nose and she calls him her friend what should I do??? I think she knows I like her but i'm not sure.

[AMCMoe]

There is a girl I really like I have known her for awhile we talk on the phone, chat on msn and txt each other.

One of the times when you're talking online (or in person if you do) tell her you wanna go somewhere with her. Sounds like those other guys are pretty stupid... If she doesn't mind hanging out with them and they're that stupid, she'd probably enjoy being with you 10x more. Just ask her out sometime. It doesn't have to be a date or anything, just 'hang out' together to see how things go. If you're still into her after a little while, move on to another step. Sound alright?

[Celica_Fan]

The other day she got all mad at me she was staying at that losers house again they are just friends she tells me and she asked me if I speak to any other girls on msn I told her I do than she called me a f**king idiot. She didn't speak to me for 3 days she also called me immature I didn't do anything. Today she was back on msn she says I never liked you ur a d**k and i'm like wtf than I was spaeaking to another chick on msn she asks me am I speaking to another chick and i'm like yeah coz I don't lie or anything and she gets all jealous. I tell her I don't like her and she says yeah you do you said it all the time I kept all the txts you idiot. I think she is jealous and gets pissed off easy.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

oh boy this sounds similar tothe last thread you had...

how old is this girl, and have you ever met her in person, or is this a chatting type thing?

[Celica_Fan]

met her in person she is 20

[AMCMoe]

It sounds like she likes playing games? I mean, was there any reason to be angry at you? Even so, thats kinda harsh? Seems kind of hypocritical being mad at you for talking to another girl online, when shes hanging out with another guy in person, doesn't it?

[Celica_Fan]

I asked her out to the drags she said when she has some free time she will go

[Celica_Fan]

She doesn't go nightclubbing doesn't go to bars or anything.

[Celica_Fan]

also she doesn't like pizza or coffee so now i'm really confused?????

[creamed_corn]

Welcome to the real world.

Most women just want to have sex and get drunk, anyhow. Take notes.

Wait until you go through college. It gets even worse.

[Valo666]

my suggestion dude, talk 2 her, figure out things shes really wanted 2 du..like easy stuff to do, but nothin special..ie, take her 2 the beach, or take her 2 a restaraunt. Somethin nice for her. Then tell her how u feel about her, then tell her how u feel about this other dude. U know what, honestly, do somethin really nice for her n pull it right out of ur a$$ too. My gf n me, about 3 weeks b4 we went out i told her ive always liked brunetts 2 and my gf is like really really light blonde and i told her i liked a co-worker from my job at the time who had a bf. I pretty much put my foot in my own mouth..so when i relized i had one of the best things sittin right infront of me and i was a f*ck up, i thought of somethin nice 2 du for her. So i asked her out 4 coffee and blind folded her in the car and took her 2 the lake where theres a bunch of rocks on the shoreline, and it was like, mid dec, so there was snow every where and ice. Any who...so i took her there, took off the blind fold and let her look over somethin shez never done and never experience. Like shez lived in this city for her life, but she has never once been down 2 the lake in the winter. It was special for her but also allowed me 2 talk 2 her person to person, make her feel special, and applogize for being an ass. And since then we have been goin out. We r on 11 months now.


oh and for creamed corn...most women dont just wanna have sex and get drunk. Maybe the chicks ur hangin out with, but ones with morals and self respect dont. I know the type of chicks that like 2 get drunk n screw, i dated one for 6 months n then she ended up gettin drunk n screwed another guy at a party i couldnt go 2 cuz of work. They dont get u n e where except closer 2 a head ache. Celica_Fan, make sure this chick is decent, make sure shez gonna wanna go out with u for the right reason. And if shez in for the same reasons as u, and u get some nookie, then ur good.

[Celica_Fan]

Thanks Valo666 that really helped the only damn problem is she likes old cars and she has one and she doesn't like celicas or any modern car for that matter. She didn't say goodbye to me on msn which pissed me off I think she had to catch her bus I was kinda pissed off though I always say goodbye to her. She is decent she said she has to be in a long term relationship before she has sex with a guy. I might have to wait though theres some guys that have liked her for a few years but she doesn't like them they are her friends but maybe she thinks they are d**ks and doesn't want to go out with any of them.

[Celica_Fan]

Do chicks like places where u can see the whole city from on top of a hill coz I want to take her to a place called Manukau Lookout it's a reserve and looks out over the city but I was thinking thats better at night I am still on my restricted licence which means we can't take passengers or drive after 10 pm I have 3 months before I go for my full licence and that is a very hard licence to sit. The cops don't give a damn if you take passengers anyway only if they have nothing better to do they have to at least issue 3 tickets per hour.

[bloodrain]

oh, btw, dont ever fight some guy over a chic unless its your wife and he grabbed her ass or something. I used to do it back in highschool and now that I look back on fighting for a girl i think "was I really that stupid." And if she can hang out at a guys house and expect you not 2 get mad, but she gets made when you talk to someone online, I'd personally tell her to f*ck off, but I know its not that easy, especially when you like them as more than a friend. Anywho, there are plenty of girls on the street, wait... maybe its theres plenty of b*tches in the sea, fishes in the sea? anywho, if she wants 2 play games then I'd say cya later.

[Celica_Fan]

nah I really want her I might have to wait till she gets to know me abit more and go out as friends a few times she's pretty and she is kind she tells me she doesn't like anyone at the moment than when I come on msn she is like i'm back yay if she goes away to do something coz she only has msn at work. I don't know if she has been up to a place called north head it overlooks the waitamata harbour and the city it looks awesome I will have to ask her and take her there.

[Celica_Fan]

She hasn't been on msn for like 2 days now and it's kinda pissing me off I chat to other girls ones that are into cars like rotors and toyotas.