 First Date was awesome Now what to do for second date on V-Day? |
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 Feb 12, 2006 - 11:11 PM
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Enthusiast  Joined Dec 17, '05 From Texas Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%)  |
Hey everyone, well last night i went out with this really hot girl for the first time and
we had a really great time and i know she really likes me, well our second date is going to be on Valentines day and i need some ideas on where to go. on the first date we when to eat at chilis and then we saw when a stranger calls and then we whent and got some ice cream and went back to her house for a little bit so i need some new ideas! and im only 19 so its not like i can go to a club and drink and stuff thanks guys --------------------  |
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Feb 12, 2006 - 11:20 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jun 23, '05 Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
 im sorry, you did a dinner/movie and now youre out of ideas "really hot girl" "i know she really likes me". hate to be harsh, this isnt going to last long, my two cents.
--------------------  I think Bigfoot is blurry, that's the problem. It's not the photographer's fault. Bigfoot is blurry. And that's extra scary to me, because there's a large, out-of-focus monster roaming the countryside. |
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Feb 12, 2006 - 11:26 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Dec 17, '05 From Texas Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Dude i hate to tell u but i just broke up with a hot ass girl last week and guess what we were together for a year and a half
so u need to know me before u say IM SORRY dont be stupid -------------------- |
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Feb 12, 2006 - 11:33 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 23, '05 Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
QUOTE(94STcoupeKyle @ Feb 12, 2006 - 9:26 PM) [snapback]392875[/snapback] Dude i hate to tell u but i just broke up with a hot ass girl last week and guess what we were together for a year and a half so u need to know me before u say IM SORRY dont be stupid "hot ass girl" this is what im talking about. a year and a half relationship doesnt mean anything (theres plenty of girls who hate being single). ive posted advice to relationship issues on here alot. but, you dont sound very mature, and your probably wouldnt accept my advice anyways. by the way my advice for vday with this girl would be a phone call, thats it. your first date with her was yesterday, give it a week before you hang out again. -------------------- I think Bigfoot is blurry, that's the problem. It's not the photographer's fault. Bigfoot is blurry. And that's extra scary to me, because there's a large, out-of-focus monster roaming the countryside. |
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Feb 12, 2006 - 11:53 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Feb 10, '03 From Connecticut Currently Offline Reputation: 11 (100%) |
Your judging the length of someones relationship from the way he describes a date on an online forum?
Dude - take her out to dinner - a nicer restaurant and them maybe since your in TX is it warm at night this time of year? Do something nice outside unless its rainin. Flowers are a def. How well do you kno her? Try to pick out something she mentioned or likes or something like that. Its the thought that counts, if you do something she knows you gave thought into your golden. Which means - you gotta come up with this by yourself. We cant do much except for the usual stuff. The big points come when it comes from the heart. When you kno she's happy its a great feeling. Damn i miss having a g/f. 
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Feb 12, 2006 - 11:54 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 3, '04 From Yakima, WA Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
try calling them beautiful, instead of hott.... hmmm :-/
-------------------- the 1/4 doesnt have patience for a ST.... so we make them ST-T's so atleast we'll sound good going slow.
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Feb 13, 2006 - 12:11 AM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 23, '05 Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Feb 12, 2006 - 9:53 PM) [snapback]392891[/snapback] Your judging the length of someones relationship from the way he describes a date on an online forum? Dude - take her out to dinner - a nicer restaurant and them maybe since your in TX is it warm at night this time of year? Do something nice outside unless its rainin. Flowers are a def. How well do you kno her? Try to pick out something she mentioned or likes or something like that. Its the thought that counts, if you do something she knows you gave thought into your golden. Which means - you gotta come up with this by yourself. We cant do much except for the usual stuff. The big points come when it comes from the heart. When you kno she's happy its a great feeling. Damn i miss having a g/f. go get one  ok so it might last long, but i dont see it being a mature relationship, more of a middle school type crush. thats what i was trying to say. seriously kyle, listen to my advice. all you should do is call her, keep it fun and short, and plan something for next weekend. over doing v-day would be a big mistake this early on in a relationship. do not give her something for v-day. shell know the only reason you did was for vday, it will have no meaning. heres my general advice for relationships: remember always stay self-confident and classy, also, keep a sense of "mystery" to you. dont always hang out with her or call her, being away creates want and it also lets her know that you have a life outside of her. just have fun. and yes blackout, beautiful>>hott This post has been edited by celicaST: Feb 13, 2006 - 12:12 AM -------------------- I think Bigfoot is blurry, that's the problem. It's not the photographer's fault. Bigfoot is blurry. And that's extra scary to me, because there's a large, out-of-focus monster roaming the countryside. |
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Feb 13, 2006 - 12:27 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Oct 22, '02 From Toronto Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
do something that isn't lame
don't let her know that you like her too much be creative --------------------  |
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Feb 13, 2006 - 12:32 AM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 23, '05 Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
QUOTE(Mike @ Feb 12, 2006 - 10:27 PM) [snapback]392914[/snapback] do something that isn't lame don't let her know that you like her too much be creative QFT This post has been edited by celicaST: Feb 13, 2006 - 12:32 AM -------------------- I think Bigfoot is blurry, that's the problem. It's not the photographer's fault. Bigfoot is blurry. And that's extra scary to me, because there's a large, out-of-focus monster roaming the countryside. |
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Feb 13, 2006 - 1:48 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Oct 9, '02 From San Diego, CA Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
give her something for v-day just something small and hang out with her but don't go all out if you don't do ANYTHING she's gonna be one unhappy girl.
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Feb 13, 2006 - 6:32 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Dec 17, '05 From Texas Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
yea i gotta do something on v-day with her, because if i dont she will think that im a JURK!
And yes it was a pretty mature relationship! we lived together, so i dont think it was like a middle school crush! She was the one that asked me to do something with her on V-Day so i could say no and just leave her by herself. She said Pink is her fav color so i thought about getting her some pink roses! -------------------- |
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Feb 13, 2006 - 6:44 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 23, '05 Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
QUOTE(94STcoupeKyle @ Feb 13, 2006 - 4:32 PM) [snapback]393257[/snapback] yea i gotta do something on v-day with her, because if i dont she will think that im a JURK! And yes it was a pretty mature relationship! we lived together, so i dont think it was like a middle school crush! She was the one that asked me to do something with her on V-Day so i could say no and just leave her by herself. She said Pink is her fav color so i thought about getting her some pink roses! well id say let her think you are a jerk (let her know she isnt going to have control over you or your emotions), if she breaks up with you because of one night, big deal, theres plenty of other women (stay away from the girls  ). but if you insist on doing something, go for it. i said in another post, if your going with flowers, id stick with 1 perfect rose over a bouquet. also, i hope you kissed her other night. first kiss always on first date. have fun! living together doesnt make it mature either, or sex. a mature relationship is one in which a couple can share their happiness, instead of relying on their happiness through their partner. sounds corny, but its so true. im not saying yours wasnt. This post has been edited by celicaST: Feb 13, 2006 - 6:45 PM -------------------- I think Bigfoot is blurry, that's the problem. It's not the photographer's fault. Bigfoot is blurry. And that's extra scary to me, because there's a large, out-of-focus monster roaming the countryside. |
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Feb 13, 2006 - 6:53 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Dec 17, '05 From Texas Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
yea we kissed one time on the first date, when i was leaving her house we gave each other a hug and then we kissed for a second.
yea i know living together doesnt make it a mature relationship! well screw it i hate the BIA now! Yea good idea on the one perfect rose thing, i was going to get her a dozen long stemed pink roses, but one really nice one sounds better anyways! im trying to think about what we could do later on in the night, i wanna do something outside thats kinda romantic but i cant really think of anything! This post has been edited by 94STcoupeKyle: Feb 13, 2006 - 6:55 PM -------------------- |
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Feb 13, 2006 - 7:07 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 3, '05 From Hollywood, FL Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
ok well first you did the first date wrong, its movie and then a dinner, not the other way around (no big deal, but keep it in mind for next time) reason being so at dinner worst comes to worst you can always talk about the movie. 2nd, for the next date make it LATE, like around 9 p.m. and at a nice resturaunt. You should be done eatting around 10-10:30. Then go somewhere quiet and nice, such as the beach or a park where you can walk and talk. Make sure you can see the stars. Dont stay out for too long cuz it can get dull and you want to keep her wanting more, Walk and talk for about 30-45 mins, if it starts to get where there are alot of aqward (sorry I suck at spelling) silences, its time to end the date. If you guys keep rambling on and laughing and having fun then stay out until you get to the silences part (which will ALWAYS happen.) If you guys are just sitting there say "well, its gettin kinda late, we should head on home now." Notice how I said 'we', it gives the sense of togetherness, if you say 'you' or 'I' your screwed. You should be back home and in bed by no later than 11:30, or 12 at LATEST. And if it feels like you ended the date to early, you did it right. Because she will feel the same way and want to hang out again, it will keep her on her toes and thinking about you, which is a good thing.
p.s. If you dont bring chocolates and roses your a dead man, consider the night over. This post has been edited by bloodrain: Feb 13, 2006 - 7:08 PM -------------------- To live, is to suffer
To survive, thats to find meaning, in the suffering....  |
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Feb 13, 2006 - 7:11 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 23, '05 Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
QUOTE(94STcoupeKyle @ Feb 13, 2006 - 4:53 PM) [snapback]393280[/snapback] yea we kissed one time on the first date, when i was leaving her house we gave each other a hug and then we kissed for a second. yea i know living together doesnt make it a mature relationship! well screw it i hate the BIA now! Yea good idea on the one perfect rose thing, i was going to get her a dozen long stemed pink roses, but one really nice one sounds better anyways! im trying to think about what we could do later on in the night, i wanna do something outside thats kinda romantic but i cant really think of anything! well me and my gf went ice skating a week ago, but seeing how youre in texas, probably not an option  is there a lake nearby? its nice to just lay outside next to a lake listening to the waves with your girl, or we like to take a boat out and rest out there, very fun i wouldnt think romantic this early on, thatd be a mistake, its almost cheesy even though its vday. if you want to do something outside, do something like frisbee golfing or something where you can move around, have something to do (if you just sit somewhere, you better be good at conversation), and have a little fun "competition" and trash talking . seriously, i still wouldnt do vday though, just my opinon. also, remember, early on its ALL about having fun, the romantic stuff comes later when you have memories together. "screw it i hate the BIA now!", i can only hope you will learn how that sounds someday. This post has been edited by celicaST: Feb 13, 2006 - 7:14 PM -------------------- I think Bigfoot is blurry, that's the problem. It's not the photographer's fault. Bigfoot is blurry. And that's extra scary to me, because there's a large, out-of-focus monster roaming the countryside. |
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