my current swap "project", and you thought the 2jz-gte swap was difficult...amateurs :) Options

[celicaST]

still in planning stages...

im sure youve all seen the episode of seinfeld where jerry attempts the "roommate swap." well im taking it a step further buahahaha. i recently broke up with my gf, and will attempt to get with her lifelong best friend. still not sure if i should, but damnit im gunna try. trust me its not as bad as it sounds, i left out a lot of info that makes me pretty confident .

so hit me with all of your encouragement or criticism.

and ladies dont hate me, this thread is a joke... well kinda

[Blakout16]

are you nuts? shoot urself, lol... either ur gonna start a civil war between the friends or... yah thats basically whats gonna happen

[orvillescelica]

i fear disaster in your future.

But i warn you, you have your interests in mind. But have you thought about their futures? That if you do somehow pull this off, you could be the reason for breaking appart a lifelong friendship. I dont know if id want that on my conscience. But i wish you well Maverick upon your journey into the danger zone!

[Supersprynt]

Way to be a jerk.

[CelicaZR]

Man i actually thought it would be a "project".
What you do is up to you man.

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

I hang out with a lot of girls, and I watch for guys to try and pull things like this on them. You'd better hope there's no one like me who is friends with these girls. If your plan works, it will be short term, and then all hell will break loose. When it does, you will be the undisputed jerk. If you live in a smaller area, these two girls will spread the word of your treachery and forever mark you as said jerk in your community. Not to mention, if you hurt a girl bad, and then she gets a boyfriend after you who is a big/angry dude. You might get beaten on a daily biases, (happened to a guy I know). But hey, it's up to you.

[devilsden97]

i thought someone was actually trying this swap! i got all excited for nothing. oh btw dude, that idea of yours, tahts crash and burn material.

[celicaST]

guys, like i said its not that bad. im sure nobody wants to here the whole story because its long but heres the jist. the reason i broke up with my gf recently is because i could tell she was just in it just for sex. was a mutual breakup as far as i could tell. and i also think she knew ive always felt for her friend more, and she was just playing me for sex . ive known her friend for as long as her. ive dated a lot of girls, but she is something special. i wouldnt do this just for the hell of it.

i fear disaster in your future.

But i warn you, you have your interests in mind. But have you thought about their futures? That if you do somehow pull this off, you could be the reason for breaking appart a lifelong friendship. I dont know if id want that on my conscience. But i wish you well Maverick upon your journey into the danger zone!

well im still thinking about whether to do it. last time i talked to the girl im after, she hinted that they dont even hang out much anymore anyways. conscience? im in a lose lose situation. its either possibly breaking up a friendship or letting a girl go without taking action.

Way to be a jerk.

i knew someone would say that. but ya, if i post pics of a brick in my windshield i wont need any explaining to do .

I hang out with a lot of girls, and I watch for guys to try and pull things like this on them. You'd better hope there's no one like me who is friends with these girls. If your plan works, it will be short term, and then all hell will break loose. When it does, you will be the undisputed jerk. If you live in a smaller area, these two girls will spread the word of your treachery and forever mark you as said jerk in your community. Not to mention, if you hurt a girl bad, and then she gets a boyfriend after you who is a big/angry dude. You might get beaten on a daily biases, (happened to a guy I know). But hey, it's up to you.

ya ive thought about this, whats life without taking risks? na, actually i dont expect either would or could happen for certain reasons.

[Consynx]

definately killing their relationship...
in a nutshell, i've done this :\

[celicaST]

are you nuts? shoot urself, lol... either ur gonna start a civil war between the friends or... yah thats basically whats gonna happen

do you have a gun i could borrow? . well ive had this happen before except i wasnt involved. two girls who were friends wanted me and they quit talking to each other for awhile. but after i broke up with one of them, they got back together and are friends again. so if i do try, and fail, i dont think its going to damage theyre friendship permanently. hell it might even make it stronger (theyll both have a shared hatred ).

[Jen]

It's not going to work. You're a fcking dumbass. There is NO way her "lifelong best friend" will ever consider going out with you. Chicks before d-cks.

[jayi12-15psi]

I figured you guys had the equivilent of bros before hos

[playr158]

yea your a duesche bag...guys like you make it harder for the decent guys and give the male gender a bad name.....IMO go crawl in a hole and stay there if not someone will put you in one

[Supersprynt]

I figured you guys had the equivilent of bros before hos

That doesnt always hold up either.

[celicaST]

It's not going to work. You're a fcking dumbass. There is NO way her "lifelong best friend" will ever consider going out with you. Chicks before d-cks.

yea your a duesche bag...guys like you make it harder for the decent guys and give the male gender a bad name.....IMO go crawl in a hole and stay there if not someone will put you in one

well thanks for compliments, but i guess i saw that coming

both of you dont know the situation at all because i havnt told you. you dont know how this girl continues to flirt with me. you dont know how close we were to getting together. you dont know how i met both of them. you just dont know.

now i know ive fallen for my own cardinal rule which is not to get hung up on one girl, but shes special and im 19 and need to quit playing around . but i also have another rule. anybody who watches the hustle will get this: you have to grab life by the balls and get what you want. hell, im not going to start to be like SO many other guys who are to afraid to take any action to get what they want. has it occured to you that she wants me to do something? if it doesnt work out, so be it, life goes on, but you have to take a chance (i just happened to put myself in a hard spot). and ill accept the consequences as they come. but, im still confident i can do this .

I figured you guys had the equivilent of bros before hos

That doesnt always hold up either.

that hardly EVER holds up.

** also, i realize the tone of the title and my first post is kind of repulsive. but its not like that.

This post has been edited by celicaST: Mar 2, 2006 - 12:42 PM

[Jen]

So you're willing to ruin a lifelong friendship over a girl you may not be with for a long time.
Guys like you are the reason that some "best friends" don't talk for 10 years.
Girls flirt and sometimes they flirt with guys they are not interested in at all.
Keep that in mind before you fck up these girls lives.
You're a jackass.

[Boss-Celica]

Props if you accomplish your mission with minimal damage.

[playr158]

your not a player your a typical jackass like jen said...
"close, how well we know each other" kid your full of sh!t
your just in it to piss off your ex cause she broke up with your sorry ass
now we all know why...you won't succeed...you'll fail...
once you grow up and learn not everything in life is about getting laid...

QUOTE(jayi12-15psi @ Mar 2, 2006 - 12:00 PM)

I figured you guys had the equivilent of bros before hos

That doesnt always hold up either.

gotta be a bro for that to even apply....this situation it doesn't apply

[1900WattCelica]

celicaST Im going to be the first to side with you lol.

If these girls are really such good friends, then unless your ex's best friend doesnt have a backbone, you stand no chance with her.

But, if something does happen, then there is noone else to blame except your ex's friend because thats her responsiblity to determine what is morally right to keep her friendship together. If there such lifelong friends, then your exs friend would never even dream of being with you. Unless of course, both girls are very very open about their dating, which happens.

[hitcachi]

yea your a duesche bag...guys like you make it harder for the decent guys and give the male gender a bad name.....IMO go crawl in a hole and stay there if not someone will put you in one

God that is so true Dan.

[celicaST]

your not a player your a typical jackass like jen said...
"close, how well we know each other" kid your full of sh!t
your just in it to piss off your ex cause she broke up with your sorry ass
now we all know why...you won't succeed...you'll fail...
once you grow up and learn not everything in life is about getting laid...

QUOTE(jayi12-15psi @ Mar 2, 2006 - 12:00 PM)

I figured you guys had the equivilent of bros before hos

That doesnt always hold up either.

gotta be a bro for that to even apply....this situation it doesn't apply

your telling me to grow up? im sure youre aware that resorting to namecalling is a sure sign of immaturity.

and dont call me kid, ok buddy?

as for relationships, its not all about getting laid for me. in this recent thread advice, you will see how i think a relationship should be: "living together doesnt make it mature either, or sex. a mature relationship is one in which a couple can share their happiness, instead of relying on their happiness through their partner."

a little tangent here, but it seems as though you are taking the typical "nice" guy stand. there is a argument ongoing in our csu paper in the student ramtalk section about why "nice" guys finish last and why girls seem to always get with "jerks". the problem isnt being nice, its that most "nice" guys are TOO nice and they let the girl control everything about the relationship. and most "nice" guys need to grow a pair, do something, and quit complaining. being nice is very important (no excuse to be mean ever), but you have to show her youre in control of yourself. and since you took a shot at me, im willing to bet that not only are you single now, but you havnt been in a serious relationship for a long time.

celicaST Im going to be the first to side with you lol.

If these girls are really such good friends, then unless your ex's best friend doesnt have a backbone, you stand no chance with her.

But, if something does happen, then there is noone else to blame except your ex's friend because thats her responsiblity to determine what is morally right to keep her friendship together. If there such lifelong friends, then your exs friend would never even dream of being with you. Unless of course, both girls are very very open about their dating, which happens.

thank you. thats exactly whats going through my mind. she made a point to tell me they dont hang out often anymore.

also, i probably went too far saying lifelong best friends in first post, theyre just friends.

and jen, i know the different kinds of flirting im waiting to be called another ass-word, be creative this time