Yo Necisito Advico, I need advice Options

[devilsden97]

So I have a friend, female. We've known each other for about 6 months, and hung out a couple of times. Mostly in a group of friends. We hung out alone once, went to a movie. We both had a good time. Shes funny, smart, and gorgious. She makes stupid faces like I do, and understands when I am joking, and when im serious. (alot of people have trouble with that, they say my "serious voice, and my joking voice are the same") Ok so basicly im beating around the bush. I like her, as more then just a friend. And idk how she feels. I really havn't lead on to my feelings, im afraid of ruining the fun friendship we have, and really just getting hurt.


Anyone have any ideas on how to get an answer? Or ways to show I am interested in her?

[Cutrara]

Hang out with her more alone and be friendly like you are now, but throw a twinge of romance in there and gauge her reaction. Thats the best I can explain it lol. Any hand-holding/arm-puttting-around? Thats important

[j0e_p3t]

don't be a jerk. i hate jerks. i know about a hundred girls that have jerks for boyfriends that treat them like ish yet the girls stay with them. i don't get it. anywho... doesn't seem like your a jerk. so just be yourself. and more alone time is good. she'll get the idea eventually. then make your move. and when you do get her, don't be a jerk.

[devilsden97]

don't be a jerk. i hate jerks. i know about a hundred girls that have jerks for boyfriends that treat them like ish yet the girls stay with them. i don't get it. anywho... doesn't seem like your a jerk. so just be yourself. and more alone time is good. she'll get the idea eventually. then make your move. and when you do get her, don't be a jerk.

lol im not a jerk...i actually go out of my way to be overly nice, just so i never recieve that title.

[j0e_p3t]

good. you shouldn't have a problem then. unless she's one of those girls that fall for the jerks. just don't make it seem like you only wanna be friends. ask a bunch of questions so you know what she's into. basic stuff at first, and slowly make your way to more personal stuff. and actually listen. and you have a sexy car, so it shouldn't be too hard to get her.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

just tell her. She probably already knows or has an idea at least. So i say you just come out and say it. Life is to short too wait around to say something and then loose her cause you didn't have the...errrrr... guts to come out and say anything . Ask her to do something alone again. Hopefully not a movie, i've been to the movies with you, you talk too much during the movie as it is, yeah just dooo it.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Mar 13, 2006 - 10:15 PM

[j0e_p3t]

just tell her

don't do that... you'll freak her out. unless she secretly has a thing for you too, which i doubt. but then again you know a lot more about her than any of us.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

well i don't mean call her up and be like I LIKE YOU YAAAAAAAAAAY! Yes, that would freak her out i'm sure. If you think she already has an idea that you have a thing for her, and you think she might feel the same then freaking tell her. I wouldn't just come out and say it though, that isnt what i meant.

you: omfg you're hawt
her: o rly?
you: ya rly
her: do me yo-yo master!

lmao.

I'm sure you can think of a way to let her know. Is this one of the girls you work with? Is it the cute girl that helped me pic out flowers? I liked her.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Mar 13, 2006 - 10:50 PM

[j0e_p3t]

you: omfg your hawt
her: o rly?
you: ya rly
her: do me yo-yo master!

[bloodrain]

just take her out on a nice date, and pull out your .50 caliber desert eagle and say "if you dont date me i'll splatter cherry pie all over this f*ckin wall" it ALWAYS works for me....

[ILuvMyCelica95]

you: omfg you're hawt
her: o rly?
you: ya rly
her: do me yo-yo master!

oops i just noticed that should be you're. oopsie.

[devilsden97]

good. you shouldn't have a problem then. unless she's one of those girls that fall for the jerks. just don't make it seem like you only wanna be friends. ask a bunch of questions so you know what she's into. basic stuff at first, and slowly make your way to more personal stuff. and actually listen. and you have a sexy car, so it shouldn't be too hard to get her.

"and you have a sexy car, so it shouldn't be too hard to get her." lol no comment

just tell her. She probably already knows or has an idea at least. So i say you just come out and say it. Life is to short too wait around to say something and then loose her cause you didn't have the...errrrr... guts to come out and say anything . Ask her to do something alone again. Hopefully not a movie, i've been to the movies with you, you talk too much during the movie as it is, yeah just dooo it.

"She probably already knows or has an idea at least." how do u know that?
"Hopefully not a movie, i've been to the movies with you, you talk too much during the movie as it is" We song kong and it was a snorfest, and u loved all my comments.

well i don't mean call her up and be like I LIKE YOU YAAAAAAAAAAY! Yes, that would freak her out i'm sure. If you think she already has an idea that you have a thing for her, and you think she might feel the same then freaking tell her. I wouldn't just come out and say it though, that isnt what i meant.

you: omfg you're hawt
her: o rly?
you: ya rly
her: do me yo-yo master!

lmao.

I'm sure you can think of a way to let her know. Is this one of the girls you work with? Is it the cute girl that helped me pic out flowers? I liked her.

"If you think she already has an idea that you have a thing for her, and you think she might feel the same then freaking tell her" Problem is idk how she feels

"Is this one of the girls you work with? Is it the cute girl that helped me pic out flowers?" no its not. Her and I had a fling over the summer, she got a bf when school started up, and we havnt hung out since.

here is alittle more info:

i talk to her online alot, we talk about a bunch of things, cars alot....I really cant judge if shes interested, or if she is just being friendly. (shes very friendly) Idk, i hate not knowing, and i know that im taking alot of her actions as "more then friends" while they could just be "friend" actions....Idk, i figure easeing into it would be the best way possible.