I want you to be my girl?, what does that mean Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

So ive been seeing this guy since the 1st of December and I was at his house on x-mas day just chillin and watching tv and he was silent so I was like umm what are you thinking and he was like “I was thinking that I want you to be my girl” and I paused like they do on the MTV show NEXT when they have to decide if they wanna go on a second date or take the money then I said ok and pecked him. But now im like umm whats the definition of girl and its not like he was like WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND? He just said that he was thinking that he wanted me to be his girl. So whats this mean in boy terms? I don’t wanna ask him cuz then ill look dumb but im not about to go change my myspace to IN A RELATIONSHIP if it doesn’t mean were in an exclusive one on one relationship.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

First, Nat… chillax! ;-)
Why not just ask him? That is the beauty of men, they aren’t very complex. If you ask them they will give you a straight answer, unless the TV is on then you get nothing. lol! Yeah, I would just ask him, what did you mean by that, you want me to be your girlfriend? If he says yes, then you know ;-).

[Supersprynt]

Uh...its not that complicated. Thing bout you women is that you make EVERYTHING compllicated. He wants you to be his girl, its clear as day. He wants you to be his girlfriend, he wants you to see only him.

Second, stop watching MTV...all of you. Its worse than cocaine.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

haha NEXT! i love that show! :-D

anyways fine ill just let it be and not ask...but his myspace status better change within two weeks to IN A RELATIONSHIP! :-P

[ILuvMyCelica95]

idk why you don't just ask.

and yes women do make things complicated. we read into everything like its a sign when men are straight foward, and we know that but we still think there is some hidden meaning behind things you do, but I ask... unless i already know the answer and its not what i want to hear, then i keep it to myself. oh the drama of myspace

[amysmojo]

Second, stop watching MTV...all of you. Its worse than cocaine.

I dont watch MTV

Im sure he meant be his girlfriend. BUT at the same time lets think back to the movie OLD SCHOOL. When Will Ferrell says "your my boy blue, your my boy!" Does that mean he wanted Blue to be his boyfriend?

Natalie...he wants you to be his boy blue. End of story

JOKING I know im a dork.

This post has been edited by amysmojo: Dec 27, 2005 - 3:23 PM

[95gtschick]

lol i'm sorry but you're basing the future of your relationship on his relationship status on myspace???


yikes....

[Supersprynt]

Yeah lets refer back to a movie where they tie a rope around someones hooha and it rips him off a high wall where he lands on a open manhole cover with a concrete block dangles. Yeah lets refer to that one.

...dork.

[celicaGT96]

he may have meant that he wanted you to be his gf, but with the way alot of guys are, he probly isnt real serious about the gf thing he just wants you to think about what he said, just like your doing now.
why, you ask....well just a way to show you hes interested.
Its hard to say unless you judge his expression when he sid it, but i know of many guys who say stuff like that to girls just messing with them, trying to make them nervous or something........
but who knows.........

[Supersprynt]

You know what girls do thats annoying, ask what a guys thinking. Seriously, we can turn our brains off, so when we say nothing, its the truth.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

he may have meant that he wanted you to be his gf, but with the way alot of guys are, he probly isnt real serious about the gf thing he just wants you to think about what he said, just like your doing now.
why, you ask....well just a way to show you hes interested.
Its hard to say unless you judge his expression when he sid it, but i know of many guys who say stuff like that to girls just messing with them, trying to make them nervous or something........
but who knows.........

YOU WOULD KNOW IF YOU ASK HIM!

You know what girls do thats annoying, ask what a guys thinking. Seriously, we can turn our brains off, so when we say nothing, its the truth.

you can turn your brain off? We already know what you are thinking. We just want you to say it, or lie to make us happy, but then we'll ask you if you lied, and if you lie then we get mad at you so you should lie again. This is why i stay outta relationships, or because im unattrative, maye both? haha

[BlackCelicaGT94]

haha yeah i have a habit of asking what someones thinking if its quiet! but usually the answer is some dirty answer! haha! i figure though he wouldnt have said "that i want u to be my girl" if he didnt want me to even have that thought in my head cuz that could be trouble if a guy said that! eh i dont know! whatev..ill give it 2 weeks and re-evaluate!

Thanks guys!


UR MY GIRL AMY UR MY GIRL

[Celicav]

Sounds like he wants to see you exclusively. Kind of interesting that he says this on XMas day, like it is some kind of XMas present for you to be his girl. In your evaluation of the relationship so far, do you think he is a genuine guy, and he was being honest? Have you had fun with him and enjoyed his conversation and company? If so, it may be real. If you have been seeing him almost a month, he probably knows what kind of direction he wants this thing to go. You are young, take a chance...

[BlackCelicaGT94]

yeah we have an awesome time together...we joke around alot and see eachother 1-2 times a week. he sees me on all his days off because our work schedules are completely opposite. I work 8am-5pm and he works 10pm-7am. but yeah we have a blast.

ya i was curious about the timing of it being on x-mas day. hmmmm... present works for me! :-D

[bloodrain]

... he was like “I was thinking that I want you to be my girl” ...

what he REALLY meant to say was "I was thinking, I want to be a girl..."
lol just messin with you, ya but its pretty obvious he digs you so...

[jgreening]

That is the beauty of men, they aren’t very complex.

Gee thanks! In all seriousness, you are right that women are generally more indecisive, emotional, and coy about what they say and do when it comes to relationships.

I always despised the girls that kept a boyfriend but they were prepared to dump them if something better came along. Why didn't they just move on? Its almost like they can't bear the thought of being alone. I had a buddy that had a girlfriend like that. I have an interesting story about how I helped show him she was no good but I will save that for another time.

[amysmojo]

Yeah lets refer back to a movie where they tie a rope around someones hooha and it rips him off a high wall where he lands on a open manhole cover with a concrete block dangles. Yeah lets refer to that one.

...dork.

are u missing my point? i didnt quote the manhole part!! lol

[lagos]

i want the 5min that it took to read this thread back !

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well u wouldnt have to ask for ur whole 5 mins back if u would have thought it was lame from the first sentence..then ud only need to ask for about 5 seconds back so really its ur own fault! sorry but im not awarding those 5 mins back



This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 27, 2005 - 5:21 PM

[Celicav]

Natalie, I hope this guy knows that you are a Celi nut, b/c a chick that is into cars is HAWT!! My wife drives a new Mustang that she loves, and that is totally cool.