B-day gift for girl your kinda dating?, Help Options

[Digndoug]

Ok.. i have posted before about a girl im kinda seeing. Im saying that because we have been hanging out for a month or two.. Were not officialy boyfriend girlfriend or anything. Its her B-day the 11th.. I have no idea what to get. I was thinking any type of jewlery would be to fowarding. yet she did just loose a ring she always wore on her thumb and i was thinking a replacment.. but i have no idea. Any ideas would help.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

too soon for jewelry!

i say dinner is appropriate at this time..a gift is a bit much at only a month or two. dress up at home and make her dinner

do u live with ur parents? if so maybe thats not the way to go!

i wouldnt think u should get her a gift.

[Digndoug]

too soon for jewelry!

i say dinner is appropriate at this time..a gift is a bit much at only a month or two. dress up at home and make her dinner

do u live with ur parents? if so maybe thats not the way to go!

i wouldnt think u should get her a gift.

Yeah I def wasnt gunna do any jewelery.. I mean I have known her sence summer.. I work with her, well she is quiting now.. I mean we even exchanged x-mas gifts.. nothing big.. and yes i do live at home.
Shes going to some club thing a night with her friends and some of her cusions. I told her i really had no intrest in going, and told her to have fun with her friends, cause she had planned it a while ago.

[JFrost9]

I dont think a gift is too much...its hard to say not knowing how you two are together, but if you guys are friends/dating, then i think something simple like a thumb ring would be fine. Just dont spend too much...

[Rjb23]

Flowers is a good start.

[bloodrain]

cant go wrong with condoms

[celicaST]

im really not a fan of giving gifts in a relationship other than bdays and xmas. i wouldnt get her anything after a month or two especially since it sounds like its not a serious relationship at this point. trust me, its not going to hurt your chances with her if you dont get anything. often, giving gifts can be awkard early in a relationship. all id do, is call her on her bday to say happy bday, talk for a little bit and wish her fun at the club. by the way, good decision not to go to the club.

[JFrost9]

Keep in mind this isnt one of those akward relationships...they've known each other since the summer, and worked together....but i second the phone call idea.

[Digndoug]

ok.. Well she is saposed to work, she mentioned she is gunna call out..

So maybe somthing simple, take her to lunch.. bring her flowers? not a lot but enough?

[celicaST]

ok.. Well she is saposed to work, she mentioned she is gunna call out..

So maybe somthing simple, take her to lunch.. bring her flowers? not a lot but enough?

lunch would work, id stay away from flowers at this point. trust me, youll regret it. flowers are nice, but i would reserve those until later. also in my opinion one perfect rose>>>whole boquet of flowers if you do decide to go that route, but dont. save the rose for something special and unique(like maybe a month after first kiss, or pick something particular to your relationship) i guarantee it will mean more to her then than now because it will have meaning to both of you and it will be unexpected. also, maybe im reading it wrong, but i would venture to guess you havnt kissed her yet. if not, g-g-g-get on it! take action and let her know you want to make it official. i could give you a little slack if you havnt kissed her yet because you were working with her (by the way, great news she is quitting). but as general rule, first kiss always on first date.