What To Do?, About this girl I met... Options

[Coomer]

Last weekend I went up to the Seattle area for my friend Sandra's boyfriend's cousin's 21st birthday party. It was kinda boring for a little bit because I'm really shy and I only knew my friend and her boyfriend. This girl at the party introduced herself to me and we ended up talking for a while at the restaurant, and we talked for a while more when we made it back to the house where everyone was staying. Most everyone was drinking except us, and eventually around 3AM she told me she was tired and told me to come upstairs and I could be her bed buddy. So we went upstairs, laid in bed(fully clothed), talked for a while, then eventually we fell asleep with her in my arms. We didn't kiss or anything, but I think we kinda clicked with each other.

The next morning she woke up and hopped in the shower because she had to go to work, and before I was able to talk to her again Sandra and I left to go back to Yakima...so I don't have her phone number or anything.

But, it turned out that she is one of Sandra's boyfriend's cousins. She's 21, into cars, she's funny, nice, really pretty, skinny, blonde, etc. And she is only living in Seattle temporarily...she used to live in Yakima, moved up there a few weeks ago, but is moving back to Yakima soon(within a couple months.)

I really like her, and I want to hang out with her some more and see if things could work out between us. I'm thinking about seeing if Sandra's boyfriend can convince her to come to Yakima to hang out, or maybe see if somehow I could go to Seattle with Sandra's boyfriend or something to hang out with her. It sucks not having her number. What do you guys think I should do?

[orvillescelica]

ask Sandras bf to ask his cousin if it would be alright for him to give you her number. Make sure you tell him to ask her if it will be alright, and not just get it from him without her permission. This is for two reasons, 1) you dont want to call her out of hte blue without her expecting it and have to explain how you go thte number. 2) its much more old fashion and gentlemenly if you properly ask for her permission.

i dont think giving Sandras bf your number and giving it to her is a great idea. Because it puts the control in her hands and in my expereince girls are reluctant to make the first move.