My Room Mate is Freaking Incredible, *rant* but advice needed also Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ok so i grew up next door to two girls. one my age and one was 5 years older. I was friends with Rachel (girl my age) till about 16 when we went different ways in HS. I then became close to her sister (alycia) and we moved in together in september in a house in Medina (one of the most expensive places to live in washington)

so our little two bedroom shack (dont get me wrong its a really cute place) was 1,200 dollars a month for rent. she was desperate for someone to move in with ASAP cuz her and her b/f had just split and i was desperate to get out of my house cuz i was having problems with my parents. So i stressed to her that i could only give her 500 dollars a month max and if i had some extra cash some months she would get it. She said that was fine cuz she makes 4 g's a month. so everything was good. I would go home at night if she was at work and sleep at my parents cuz i have a big fear of being raped. so i never felt safe. So anyways 3 months had passed and im pretty broke. I got credit card bills to pay, 2 cell phones, gas, food, social life.

So i wrote her a note on saturday explaining that was my best friend and that i honestly could not do more than 500 dollars a month and if she found someone else to move in with her i would not be upset cuz it wasnt fair that she was paying a 1,000 dollars a month. so i told her to take the weekend to think about things and i would be back on monday.

She text me saturday afternoon asking if i wanted to go to a concert and i had asked her if she had seen my note and she said and i quote "yeah and dont worry about it. i know ur doing what you cant" so that was that. then while im at work on monday i get a text saying "we need to talk about money, u should be paying 800 dollars a month" i told her that thats why i had given her the note and everything. so basically it comes down to i will not give her a dime more than 500 a month cuz thats what i told her from the get go i would give her. so ive moved most of my stuff back and ive told her hey ill give you 500 a month till feb 1st so u can find somsone to live with you but i cant stay there and pay more than 500 a month cuz i end up having no life. I only make 1,000 a month! so she calls me harassing my Voicemail saying that i need to step up the plate and take responsibility.

Which if i was slacking and not paying what i had promised her from the beginning i could see but i guess i just dont see her point. I know its unfair for me to pay only 500 though i dont eat, shower, wash clothes, get the garage, or master bedroom there. So really i think 500 is fair - i only really sleep there like 3 times a week! oh and im not allowed to use my computer over there cuz she doesnt wanna unhook her computer and let me plug my lap top in though that bill is in my name.

i have people all around me telling me im being to nice. but i havent even talked to this girl since monday cuz i dont see the point. theres nothing to talk about. i told her i could only do 500 and i think im being nice by giving her till feb 1st to find someone else.

GIRLS ARE CRAZY!

anyone got any suggestions on what else i need to say to her??

[neoklis]

Well, if you said from the start that you would have a problem paying more than 500 then you are clear. I know a lot of people like this girl that always want to do what they think and are not considerate of other people. I would say ditch her and don't give it another thought. Just say you have financial problems and move back with the parents. Make sure there are no bills on your name before you move.

Now regarding the parents, i have noticed that they generally behave a lot better once you moved out and then moved back in. As for the snooping around, well who can blame them. You are leaving under their roof so they have some rights aswell. If you have nothing to hide then there is nothing to find when they snoop. Personally, after leaving on my own for 7 years while studying and another 2 when i was in the army, i moved back with them when i came from the states.
I have no real issues so far, and this helped me save for my GT4 so i ahve no complaints. Just think of it like $500 a month wasted. 6 months of rent is another Celi or a 3SGTE engine.

[jojobombiest]

Just think of it like $500 a month wasted. 6 months of rent is another Celi or a 3SGTE engine.
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Nice way to look at it.