My Room Mate is Freaking Incredible, *rant* but advice needed also Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ok so i grew up next door to two girls. one my age and one was 5 years older. I was friends with Rachel (girl my age) till about 16 when we went different ways in HS. I then became close to her sister (alycia) and we moved in together in september in a house in Medina (one of the most expensive places to live in washington)

so our little two bedroom shack (dont get me wrong its a really cute place) was 1,200 dollars a month for rent. she was desperate for someone to move in with ASAP cuz her and her b/f had just split and i was desperate to get out of my house cuz i was having problems with my parents. So i stressed to her that i could only give her 500 dollars a month max and if i had some extra cash some months she would get it. She said that was fine cuz she makes 4 g's a month. so everything was good. I would go home at night if she was at work and sleep at my parents cuz i have a big fear of being raped. so i never felt safe. So anyways 3 months had passed and im pretty broke. I got credit card bills to pay, 2 cell phones, gas, food, social life.

So i wrote her a note on saturday explaining that was my best friend and that i honestly could not do more than 500 dollars a month and if she found someone else to move in with her i would not be upset cuz it wasnt fair that she was paying a 1,000 dollars a month. so i told her to take the weekend to think about things and i would be back on monday.

She text me saturday afternoon asking if i wanted to go to a concert and i had asked her if she had seen my note and she said and i quote "yeah and dont worry about it. i know ur doing what you cant" so that was that. then while im at work on monday i get a text saying "we need to talk about money, u should be paying 800 dollars a month" i told her that thats why i had given her the note and everything. so basically it comes down to i will not give her a dime more than 500 a month cuz thats what i told her from the get go i would give her. so ive moved most of my stuff back and ive told her hey ill give you 500 a month till feb 1st so u can find somsone to live with you but i cant stay there and pay more than 500 a month cuz i end up having no life. I only make 1,000 a month! so she calls me harassing my Voicemail saying that i need to step up the plate and take responsibility.

Which if i was slacking and not paying what i had promised her from the beginning i could see but i guess i just dont see her point. I know its unfair for me to pay only 500 though i dont eat, shower, wash clothes, get the garage, or master bedroom there. So really i think 500 is fair - i only really sleep there like 3 times a week! oh and im not allowed to use my computer over there cuz she doesnt wanna unhook her computer and let me plug my lap top in though that bill is in my name.

i have people all around me telling me im being to nice. but i havent even talked to this girl since monday cuz i dont see the point. theres nothing to talk about. i told her i could only do 500 and i think im being nice by giving her till feb 1st to find someone else.

GIRLS ARE CRAZY!

anyone got any suggestions on what else i need to say to her??

[Digndoug]

Yeah moving in with friends, is most the time a bad idear. I know to many people that dont talk anymore cause with bill or somthingwith renting a house. Alos why the hell would you still pay $500 a month when your only there 3 days a week, that just sounds stupid to me. I would say **** it, an just leave an not pay any more.

Also why is someone gunna rape you at this place? is it in the G-hetto?

This post has been edited by Digndoug: Nov 26, 2004 - 12:56 PM