Time to blow some steam..., Rant Options

[Yota]

I bought this Rear Strut bar on Dec. 13 off ebay. I pay-paled the guy so he had my money right when I bought it. I was patient with him as he told me he was having issues getting it shipped. for like2 weeks I waited patiently. Then like 3 weeks ago he told me he had it shipped but he didn't have a tracking number because he sent it US Postal. that was the last time I had heard from him. So tonight I sent him one last email telling him that he has 2 days to refund my money because it shouldn't take a month to send something like this.

If he doesn't send me the money back by Wednesday night, I told him I'm going to report him to ebay and to paypal.

Now you might be thinking that this is a little over the top.. But I checked his feedback stuff and 8 out of the last 30 people who bought something from him NEVER received it. I'm thinking I got scammed.

What do you think about this? Should I have been a little more patient?

[Yota]

Dude, you totally need to threaten him like I did...

I'm serious about this because I remember seeing that strut bar go up on ebay for a 2nd time. I thought it was odd because I didn't buy it from a company and why would some dude have 2 Cusco rear strut bars for one celica?

My dad is going to handle it for me. He has registered complaints before on ebay. This is my first bad experience through ebay so I don't know what exactly to do. I can find out for you and tell you what you should do to register a complaint through ebay.

Did he tell you that he had a tough time getting to the post office? Did he tell you he sent it and didn't get a tracking number?