Would you give up your kid?, on a serious note Options

[Clipsetuner]

I dont know how to begain this but, its just about the hardest thing in my life.

So about 5 months ago Im with this girl, been dating her for about 9 months, and she ends up cheating on me go figure. Well she called me up last week and told me she was pregnat. Yeah I think you could peice the rest together. I am bascily at the worst lowest ever I have so many things to think about, consider, and deicde, and also let her sit back and decide what she wants.

I know the kid could or could not be mine, but its still hitting me really deep. I know I want to be a good guy / mabey father but I dont know If I can do it, I think about if she gave the kid away, yes it would be to a loving family but I would be giving up my baby girl forever. If the kid isnt mine yeah im out of the clear but the other guy is a jackass, and there is no way she could even do this on her own. I still love her, could I ever love her more then a friend ever again no.

I am really torn in this situation, I relize Im only 17 and this is just huge (dont give me that typical teenager **** , condom, and no sex bs, its all lies for the most part) I dont want this child weither it be mine or not to face the world without the love and care she deserves. I am a only child myself and only had my mom around and I know how hard it is to say your dad didnt want you. I guess this is why it strokes such a deep hurt inside me.

I dont really talk to anyone anymore on this site sep mac, and he didnt even know this was going down. There is just so much more I could type but this makes me hurt enough to cry. I guess I really need some sort of support and reinforcemnt of what things I need todo.

DTE

[Clipsetuner]

Thanks guys this really means alot to me. Its really hard stuff to think about even when your not even in the position. I am going forward with taking all finiancl responablity, even if it isnt mine just because I have the money and no one else does, and even if this kid isnt mine or doesnt end up with me I want her to know that someone cared about her enough at one point.

I dont know if I got it if I could provide "the normal life" but I would try my hardest. I am not really one to back down on things, and I know if I have a baby there goes all my cars, and there goes street racing but it would be worth it for her. I would want her most of the time just because I know my ex couldent handle her, I dont know if I can either but Ill do anything it takes.

I am letting her (ex) make all the decisions and she can ask for my help with chosing them but I will not give her a positive answer on anything just from both sides of veiw.

I am just really stress'd about this not know what todo, having no decisions and knowing I might be a father for the rest of my life is just a hard thing to deal with.

DTE

o yeah there was a condom.