Ever feel like you don't have what it takes? Options

[acenova]

Ever just feel down, like you're a loser with a wasted life? I'm 20 yrs. old, in college, never got great grades, but always good enough to pass. I've had jobs before, but never have money. I model, but for some reason feel inadequate in comparison. I have a beautiful, wonderful girlfriend that I've never been so happy with, and I don't feel I deserve her. I would do anything for her and for any of my friends, and I've always treated her the best that anyone has ever treated her before. Why is it that I'm scared I'm going to lose her? Why do I feel as though, even though her past boyfriends were asses and ****ed her over, I don't match up? Why is it that I feel that my material things and my lack of organization in life make me inadequate as a human and not fit to date this girl? I'm usually a fairly confident guy, I don't have it all, but I've got it pretty good. Yet realizing this, telling myself this, I am in shambles, and slowly becoming more and more insecure. Anyone have this??? Anyone get over this????

[Exile04]

Ever just feel down, like you're a loser with a wasted life?  I'm 20 yrs. old, in college, never got great grades, but always good enough to pass.  I've had jobs before, but never have money.  I model, but for some reason feel inadequate in comparison.  I have a beautiful, wonderful girlfriend that I've never been so happy with, and I don't feel I deserve her.  I would do anything for her and for any of my friends, and I've always treated her the best that anyone has ever treated her before.  Why is it that I'm scared I'm going to lose her?  Why do I feel as though, even though her past boyfriends were asses and ****ed her over, I don't match up?  Why is it that I feel that my material things and my lack of organization in life make me inadequate as a human and not fit to date this girl?  I'm usually a fairly confident guy, I don't have it all, but I've got it pretty good.  Yet realizing this, telling myself this, I am in shambles, and slowly becoming more and more insecure.  Anyone have this???  Anyone get over this????
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dude thats praticly like my like 19 in college, low paying job, not good grades just enough to pass. its suxs but i have figured it out, if you stick with it you will get thur it and end up having a better life. it seems that some people have grea teen years but as they get older it gets harder and harder, but people that didnt have good teen years (hard years) have good adult years. Atleast thats what im hoping.

Also, think of it this way u have a good looking girl that lets you hang out with friends and such and such, i had a girlfriend(still kinda together not really) how took my friends away, and im really done to one/ two good friends. But its alright things will work out. Plus you always have the celica