Problem, what would you do? Options

[coustoe]

I've been seeing this girl for a while now (about 4 months now) shes great, and personality wise I'm happy. The only problem is the way she dresses.... Ya I know most of you are going to say it shouldnt matter but this is different, she wears clothing thats way to tight, shes not the skinniest girl, and no she isnt a huge whale, plus the clothes she wears are kinda flashy like club wear. Clothes that exposes teh midriff and show lots of cleavage, well you can guess what happens at the midriff, stuff bulges and hangs out. I don't really care that shes has a bit around the middle, but im bewildered why she wears these clothes that make her look so fat.

I've tried to drop hints to her, but she doesnt seem to be notice. How do you tell someone without being mean that maybe they should wear clothes that fit?

[amysmojo]

maybe she is broke like me & cant afford to buy new clothes! My midriff shows all the time cause my shirts dont seem to like to stay down around my middle LOl I would love to buy stuff that stays where i want it but....Im honestly too broke!

& I bet she is gonna take it hard, girls like to focus on that one "bad" comment out of all the good things you guys say to us. Even if you dont mean anything by it & are just trying to help

[coustoe]

maybe she is broke like me & cant afford to buy new clothes! My midriff shows all the time cause my shirts dont seem to like to stay down around my middle LOl I would love to buy stuff that stays where i want it but....Im honestly too broke!

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haha, I think you might be right, shes a poor college student, and constantly talks about being broke, I remember she said something like she couldnt find any shirts that fit down over her waist shes kinda tall 5' 8", i dont know how true this is because I bought her some shirts that fit but she never wears them.

This post has been edited by coustoe: May 24, 2005 - 12:37 PM