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[coustoe]

I've been seeing this girl for a while now (about 4 months now) shes great, and personality wise I'm happy. The only problem is the way she dresses.... Ya I know most of you are going to say it shouldnt matter but this is different, she wears clothing thats way to tight, shes not the skinniest girl, and no she isnt a huge whale, plus the clothes she wears are kinda flashy like club wear. Clothes that exposes teh midriff and show lots of cleavage, well you can guess what happens at the midriff, stuff bulges and hangs out. I don't really care that shes has a bit around the middle, but im bewildered why she wears these clothes that make her look so fat.

I've tried to drop hints to her, but she doesnt seem to be notice. How do you tell someone without being mean that maybe they should wear clothes that fit?

[ILuvMyCelica95]

maybe she is broke like me & cant afford to buy new clothes! My midriff shows all the time cause my shirts dont seem to like to stay down around my middle LOl I would love to buy stuff that stays where i want it but....Im honestly too broke!

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haha, I think you might be right, shes a poor college student, and constantly talks about being broke, I remember she said something like she couldnt find any shirts that fit down over her waist shes kinda tall 5' 8", i dont know how true this is because I bought her some shirts that fit but she never wears them.
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It also depends on where you shop- a lot of heavier girls don't like to not wear what's "in" like those low cut jeans and such. I know that I personally do not go near the JR. Department in any store. Unfortunately my body type is not what a 20 year old is supposed to look like because the JR department clothes look horrible on me. I was recently in Macy's and I was like wtf.

But, I also work in an office so I'm not going to be prancing around in low cut jeans and tight shirts, and even when im out of the office I don't- but that's beside the point.

Stores like NY&Co (MY FAV!!!) and Express sells clothes in different sizes like tall average and petite ( yay petite for me! ) I know things can be expensive but there are also a lot of good sales and things.

edit: Tina can't spell ha ha

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: May 24, 2005 - 12:54 PM