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 May 31, 2005 - 9:52 AM
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I really need advice, and would appreciate that whomever has something against me to refrain from commenting unless you have real advice that pertains to my situation.
I will put this very vaguely. I found out my boyfriend lied to me. No, he didn't cheat, but he lied.. and it was indeed a very big lie. Should I just confront him? Or should I ask him more questions to bury him deeper into his hole of lies? -------------------- |
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May 31, 2005 - 11:10 AM
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If it was one lie and he said "don't tell my girlfriend" then I can gurantee there are other lies. In the other cases it probably involved someone that wouldn't tell you or nobody else was around to know. Now that you have a reason to have a lack of trust you can either leave him or keep an eye on him to see if he'll do it again because chances are he will. I wouldn't go in with blind trust because you'll get burned.
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Jen I need advice. May 31, 2005 - 9:52 AM
lagos it really depends on his lie...kind of hard to say... May 31, 2005 - 9:54 AM
Jen QUOTE(lagos @ May 31, 2005 - 9:54 AM)it reall... May 31, 2005 - 10:02 AM nik QUOTE(Jen @ May 31, 2005 - 8:02 AM)QUOTE(lago... May 31, 2005 - 10:56 AM red94celicagt I say you ask him some more questions, see how man... May 31, 2005 - 9:54 AM nik QUOTE(Jen @ May 31, 2005 - 7:52 AM)I really n... May 31, 2005 - 9:55 AM gt4uk personally, i would confront him about it...if u l... May 31, 2005 - 10:02 AM gt4uk not good comment to come out with..... May 31, 2005 - 10:06 AM BlackCelicaGT94 im gonna say it was a drug - just a complete guess... May 31, 2005 - 10:20 AM gt4uk drugs r not good!
my wife was a Pot head for ... May 31, 2005 - 10:26 AM madmods Its time to move on. The phrase don't tell my ... May 31, 2005 - 10:28 AM Mynzeyes QUOTE(madmods @ May 31, 2005 - 10:28 AM)Its t... May 31, 2005 - 10:39 AM 94CelicaRedHatch QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ May 31, 2005 - 8:20 A... May 31, 2005 - 10:34 AM gt4uk OOoooo we dont know its drugs....shouldnt jump to ... May 31, 2005 - 10:38 AM BlackCelicaGT94 True i shouldnt jump to conclusions but it really ... May 31, 2005 - 10:55 AM ScoobyDooCruiser Hm... it depends a lot on previous stuff.
If he... May 31, 2005 - 1:26 PM Supersprynt QUOTEdrug - depends on what drug.
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[snapback]2... May 31, 2005 - 1:35 PM ILuvMyCelica95 QUOTE(madmods @ May 31, 2005 - 11:28 AM)Its t... May 31, 2005 - 2:01 PM Galcobar In this situation, I'd say give him the rope t... May 31, 2005 - 5:56 PM Jen So, update. I went to talk to him today before a j... May 31, 2005 - 6:21 PM SoundSlut_dotcom QUOTE(Jen @ May 31, 2005 - 4:21 PM)So, update... Jun 3, 2005 - 11:49 AM Pali_playa pmed May 31, 2005 - 7:05 PM Andason you live with a dude you've known for HOW long... May 31, 2005 - 7:33 PM lil_rico arent you only 17? well anyway if he lied and you ... May 31, 2005 - 8:04 PM saleeka Whatever it was- he knew it was the wrong thing to... May 31, 2005 - 9:26 PM Jen QUOTE(Andason @ May 31, 2005 - 7:33 PM)you li... May 31, 2005 - 9:43 PM DaMnItLeWiS The 'Dont tell my girlfriend' part kills h... May 31, 2005 - 11:32 PM nik so what happened??? Jun 2, 2005 - 3:56 PM chucho once you dont have trust then you really dont have... Jun 2, 2005 - 4:10 PM coustoe depends, if he said he would stop eating unhealthy... Jun 2, 2005 - 4:28 PM coustoe oh I also find being really nice to someone then g... Jun 2, 2005 - 4:30 PM red_94gts QUOTE(coustoe @ Jun 2, 2005 - 9:30 PM)oh I al... Jun 2, 2005 - 11:15 PM Akimbo Wow a relationship with no trust. The sex must be ... Jun 2, 2005 - 7:22 PM Jen QUOTE(Akimbo @ Jun 2, 2005 - 7:22 PM)Wow a re... Jun 2, 2005 - 8:57 PM Andason QUOTE(Jen @ Jun 2, 2005 - 7:57 PM)QUOTE(Akimb... Jun 3, 2005 - 12:00 PM Jen QUOTE(Andason @ Jun 3, 2005 - 12:00 PM)QUOTE(... Jun 3, 2005 - 12:35 PM darksecret ^^^^^
It's the truth i've told one lie and... Jun 3, 2005 - 11:16 AM Anub1s So let me see if I have this straight, your boyfri... Jun 3, 2005 - 11:26 AM Anub1s Down boy! DOWN! Jun 3, 2005 - 12:05 PM Scarrell well without really knowing what happend, cant rea... Jun 3, 2005 - 12:44 PM darksecret ^^^^^^^^^^
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