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do you ever feel.... |
Aug 13, 2005 - 8:08 PM |
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Enthusiast Joined May 15, '05 From Toronto Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
Bored in a relationship?? Ive been with my girl friend on n off for 4 years, and together for 7 n a half months this time. I dunno why but at times im gettin kinda bored. We dont really do to much any more, we see eachother like every day (she lives 4 blocks away) and i dunno. I feel like i want more, like maybe i want a fresh start. Any one else ever felt like this?/how did u deal with it?
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Aug 13, 2005 - 8:35 PM |
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 7, '05 From Corvallis, OR Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Well, your profile says your 18, so if you've seriously been together with your GF on and off since you were 14, I'd say it might be time to move on. In general, college and especially high-school relationships are just for experimenting and finding out what you're looking for in your future wife/husband. So just ask yourself one question. Do you think you will be happy together in two years? In ten? If so, then you're luckier than most of the population, and what you're feeling now is just a temporary feeling of needing some space for a while. It's a guy thing. It'll pass in a few months. If you really can't see yourself being happy together in the future, then at this point you're just wasting your time, and the longer you hold on, the more you'll hurt her when you break it off. Just make sure to look at the big picture, and not just your feelings at the moment.
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