Roommates, UPDATED, I NEED ADVICE! Options

[Jen]

So.. around July I moved in with 2 of my best friends. Things were perfect for a while. Then the bickering started. One of my roommates has the worst temper I have ever seen. She will get mad at everything and try to beat the hell out of you. One night she was bitching about me taking a couple of chips from the bag she bought (ridiculous).. and she was getting in my face about it as I was trying to talk to her calmly.. so I kind of pushed her away (not like a full on shove) and told her that I didn't appreciate her being up in my face for something so stupid. Well she thought I was trying to fight her.. and someone seriously had to hold her back from punching me. Psychotic bitch. This led to me having a complete nervous breakdown and having taken to the hospital due to blackouts, etc.

Now, they have these parties at least once a week.. and it's so loud. It lasts until 4 o'clock in the morning. We have gotten 3 warnings, and the next one we're evicted. There is one going on right now.. and as many of you know.. I have turtles.. and apparently someone pissed in their aquarium. One of my turtles was so stressed out.. I had to hold him for an hour before he would calm down. I am SO pissed off. One time, someone poured beer in there.. and I had to take one of my turtles to an emergency clinic because he was barely alive. These turtles are my children.. why would someone do something like that?! Well, the party is still going on.. and I'm sooo tired but I cannot sleep.

Anyway. Another girl moved in not too long ago. She's paying $100/month just to live on the couch. That's when Thomas and I decided to move out. We are so sick of having to deal with them. They bitch at us for everything. They expect us to take out the 10 bags of trash every week. Well, if we don't it just piles up even more. So we have to because they are too lazy to do it.

Gosh. I'm so sick of it here.

This post has been edited by Jen: Oct 2, 2005 - 9:12 PM

[OrbitalGT95]

im currently living with my friend and have been for the past 3 years...we really are like brothers..hell i'd rather live with him then my acutal brother...it honestly depends on how good of friends you are and if you can really acept them for who they are...now im lucky..ive know my room mate since we were born..literally...our grandparents grew up togerher..our parents did...his dad and my mom even went to prom together...and now we are...god forbid if we have kids(there are gonna be sooo screwed up) that hopefully they'll grow up together...dont get me wrong...things aren't always perfect..but thats life..and you gotta deal with things even if they aren't to your advantage...but in your situation jen, i think its time you and ur bf is it...should try living on your own and see how you two do

This post has been edited by OrbitalGT95: Oct 2, 2005 - 12:28 PM