 Met a Girl - Advice Needed |
 Nov 18, 2005 - 1:45 AM
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Last weekend I went to this party, and I met this really cool girl. She introduced herself to me and we talked for a while. She was telling me that she has parties every Friday and that I should come sometime. At one point she told me her address, and I surprisingly remembered it. She lives in one of the residential areas around here.
She seemed to like me, and looked kinda sad when my friends(aka my ride home) came and got me to leave. Me being the shy person that I am didn't ask her for her number or anything. I really want to see her again and maybe see what happens, but I only know here address. I don't know any of her friends or anything. So this is my question...she told me she has parties every Friday. I'm thinking of getting a friend to go with me and heading down to her house tomorrow and if there are cars there and people outside and stuff, I'm thinking of walking up with my friend and seeing what's up. Hopefully I'd remember someone from last weekend and they'd offer us to stay and hang out or whatever, where I could find then find this girl. Now, is that weird/stalker-ish? Should I do it or not do it? -------------------- New Toyota project coming soon...
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Nov 18, 2005 - 2:30 AM
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this is tough man... there is a thin line between stalker status and hi im here for a party status
just play it cool and show up for the party, not for the girl, and before you know it the girl will come to you |
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Nov 18, 2005 - 3:00 AM
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QUOTE(dlx742 @ Nov 18, 2005 - 12:30 AM) [snapback]356909[/snapback] this is tough man... there is a thin line between stalker status and hi im here for a party status just play it cool and show up for the party, not for the girl, and before you know it the girl will come to you exactly, play it cool is advice to live by. let her approach you because she will if she is genuinely interested. if not, do not loose your cool and go up to her. just trust me on that one. remember there is a difference between being quiet and shy. its good to be quiet because a sense of mystery for lack of better word should not be underestimated, but shyness resulting from anxiety or whatnot points to lack of self-confidence. just be classy and confident, get her digits and leave soon after, even if you need to make an excuse up, dont get caught up in a conversation with her there. give her a call week later or so, shell be surprised you remembered , set a date and your set. just my advice, use at your own risk, it will turn you into a playa 
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Coomer Met a Girl - Advice Needed Nov 18, 2005 - 1:45 AM
Batman722 do it. Somethings you have to take a chance to suc... Nov 18, 2005 - 1:49 AM Bigmeanbulldog55 My advice would be to kinda wate around outside fo... Nov 18, 2005 - 1:55 AM lagos write her a letter saying you like her and want to... Nov 18, 2005 - 2:19 AM Bigmeanbulldog55 QUOTE(lagos @ Nov 18, 2005 - 2:19 AM... Nov 18, 2005 - 2:23 AM 95CelicaST To be honest, don't bring a friend, unless its... Nov 18, 2005 - 3:07 AM Akimbo She INVITED you over by telling you her address an... Nov 18, 2005 - 3:20 AM 95CelicaST Well, yes bring a friend. What I meant was, don... Nov 18, 2005 - 3:47 AM orvillescelica your plan sounds fine. If there is a party, go to ... Nov 18, 2005 - 6:11 AM Supersprynt As long as u still remember her name it'll be ... Nov 18, 2005 - 9:40 AM dustin15brown I say go for it, I'm very shy too, but at some... Nov 18, 2005 - 9:47 AM creis go for it, but dont hide it the bushes or somethin... Nov 18, 2005 - 10:13 AM shin i say go to her party tonite and just peek if ther... Nov 18, 2005 - 10:36 AM Digndoug You sound like me.. but i never take the girls up ... Nov 18, 2005 - 11:13 AM Benevolence she wasn't really drunk when you were talking ... Nov 18, 2005 - 2:52 PM gas65 You have her address, and should know here name, s... Nov 18, 2005 - 3:01 PM LewFX if shes your type and you dont mind her being a pa... Nov 18, 2005 - 3:38 PM
97lestyousay : Nov 18, 2005 - 9:26 PM Smlogg If you give her your car she'll definetly let ... Nov 18, 2005 - 4:28 PM ILuvMyCelica95 QUOTE(Batman722 @ Nov 18, 2005 - 1:4... Nov 18, 2005 - 4:46 PM TTE Walk up to her door, even if there is no party, an... Nov 18, 2005 - 10:33 PM Celicav Damn, you younger and more innocent people. This ... Nov 18, 2005 - 10:43 PM Hanyo I briefly read everyones post, now just let me say... Nov 19, 2005 - 1:08 AM 95CelicaST QUOTEBut on the other note, remember to put a fres... Nov 19, 2005 - 4:06 AM Coomer W00t! I just got dropped off by her a few minu... Nov 19, 2005 - 4:32 AM celicaST QUOTE(Coomer @ Nov 19, 2005 - 2:32 A... Nov 19, 2005 - 4:39 AM Celicav Man, you are doing fine with this chick...she invi... Nov 19, 2005 - 6:25 AM celicaST QUOTE(Celicav @ Nov 19, 2005 - 4:25 ... Nov 19, 2005 - 5:30 PM OrbitalGT95 onep piece of advise..girls love atention..but u g... Nov 20, 2005 - 12:22 AM CelicaZR This is an interesting thread.
Good on ya and good... Nov 20, 2005 - 1:14 AM Dr_Tweak QUOTE(CelicaZR @ Nov 20, 2005 - 6:14... Nov 20, 2005 - 5:46 AM 95CelicaST QUOTEPS: Where are the nekked pics?
I second that Nov 20, 2005 - 2:26 PM Consynx my advice: run
girls are evil. Nov 21, 2005 - 2:38 PM 97lestyousay : Nov 21, 2005 - 10:26 PM Blakout16 QUOTE(orvillescelica @ Nov 18, 2005 - 3... Nov 21, 2005 - 2:52 PM Akimbo Keep it respectful, guys. Nov 21, 2005 - 3:50 PM |
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