Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[BlackCelicaGT94]

as a girl i would tell the guy yes even if it was a one nighter! I think abortion is ok only if you can not care for that child...but you should not have a 9 abortions and the 10th ones free card. If youre having sex then you should be ready for whatever happens especially if you didnt wrap it up or if the girls not using a pill or something of that sorts. We need to have abortion as an option though for certain cases such as rape or mentally disabled! but if ur opening ur legs or if your putting it to her then you need to be prepared for the worst case!

my mom talks to me everyday how she would love for me to have a baby but we both know im not ready! but yeah i would definetly call the guy up the second I found out and tell him and just let him know my choice..and if i was to keep it and he didnt want to deal with it then fine but i would want him to sign over his parental rights so then i would never speak to him again and i would hope he would never try talk to the child! im not one to try get money..id rather not see him again if he wants nothing to do with the child then sit there and try take him to court for money and have a lousy man in my childs life