Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[creis]

^ Its not a kid yet. its just an egg.

If I got a girl pregnet I would hope should would tell me, mainly because I would never want to make a girl go throw a situation as big as that alone, and it takes 2 to make a baby, which means that both people have a say in it. Although the girl has the biggest say maily because its her body and she has to do the most work. anyway I'm all for abortions because if you cant handle the responsobility or cant provide for a chiled then its not fair to that chiled to grow up like that, you see every day thoes comertials about kids digging though dumpters and having no food, most dont live long anyway its very sad to make a baby grow up like that, there are too many already that have to live in foster homes or on the streets.

personlay I take the whole "baby making" very seriously, and I dont have 1 night stands, because I know that I'm not in a position where I can handel a baby or everything that involves.

rape is a compleatly diff thing, its a horrible act and in that situation how on earth could you force the victum to have that chiled maid out of pain and suffering and only going to cause more pain and suffering, and live a horrible life.

you have to understand that not everyone has what we have, we take so many things for granted. So many people have nothing and are hardly able to support them selves yet alone a baby.

is masterbating bad then cuz i mean a guy is spitting out his kids at the end of it? so hes killing babies

LOL, nice. but not a problem if you stop early right?

This post has been edited by creis: Nov 27, 2005 - 11:51 PM