Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ok well then if abortion is wrong then lets ban it and lets see how many people adopt a kid with special needs? would you!? probably not! cuz when people go to adopt they want a perfect kid not a kid who takes extra work!

and how would you feel if you had a mentally disabled daughter who was raped?

when it hits close to home then you talk to me about whether abortion is right or wrong!



edit - abortion will never end! the rich will alwways be able to get an abortion and what happens to the poor who cant get it? they will go to doctors who cant do it right and will end up dying!

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Nov 27, 2005 - 11:25 PM

[BlackSTX]

edit - abortion will never end! the rich will alwways be able to get an abortion and what happens to the poor who cant get it? they will go to doctors who cant do it right and will end up dying!

That's exactly my problem with abortion. All the cases that I personally know about are young white girls with money who didn't feel ready to have a baby. They were irresponsible and used it as birth control. All the poor girls I knew who got pregnant at a young age had their babies. Everyone always argues that it's good because people who can't afford to bring a child into the world should have a way out, but that's not who normally has an abortion, at least from what I've seen. It's for irresponsible rich kids who still need to party for a few years before becoming responsible.