Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[WannabeGT4]

Yeah, what happened to the good ol' days when I could go kill someone 'cause they can't function in society or because their mother didn't want them or wasn't ready for them? What gives her more rights than me?
At what point is it no longer ok to kill a baby? right before it's delivered? a month before? 2 months? When is the baby defined as a human being? At conception? When it has a heartbeat? When it can move on it's own?
I believe that life begins at conception. That is when life starts. Without the egg and sperm meeting there would be no life.
To end a life is murder.

The only times I think an abortion should ever be considered is when there are complications in the pregnancy and the womans life is in danger or if she was raped. Other than that, She should take responsibility for her actions. She knows the consequences she should deal with them.