Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[Supersprynt]

First, caps lock, take it off.

Second, its the womans body, it is ultimately her choice.

Third, Wannabe, you've already changed the context of this argument and I am not arguing about whether its ok to kill human beings I am saying it is the freedom of choice which is the debate. You dont see PRO DEATH or PRO KILLING do you? You see Pro Choice. I feel very strongly about the way this country is being led and its direction is not towards more freedoms and more choices but less and more restrictions. The bottom line is, you do not have the right to tell someone what they can and cannot do with their own bodies. A baby is part of its mother part of her body until it is born. Dont get me wrong, I do not think an abortion is right after a certain amount of time, however within a time limit I think a mother has the ultimate decision whether or not to keep it.

On the other hand, someone said oh the father has no right to the decision? Well if he DOESNT want it, ands he DOES, whose decision is it ultimately? Hers! So dont bring that up ever again, its null and void.