Secret abortions |
Secret abortions |
Nov 25, 2005 - 8:52 PM |
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 6, '03 From South Central Los Angeles and Long Beach, CA Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.
All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly. Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men: If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done? Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now. For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family. Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions. David |
Nov 28, 2005 - 5:20 PM |
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
I agree with Super! You cant tell someone what they can or cant do with their body...
except for cases such as someone with Cerebal Palsby or something of that sorts! anyways as a girl i want the choice to be there so if i was raped i could have an abortion...if i went around having sex with no condom and no bc and got pregnant then yeah i most likely would keep the baby cuz im most likely having sex with someone I love and if they dont wanna be a part of that babies life then TO HELL WITH THEM and i wont try get any money from them cuz they dont wanna be there so why try make them attached to the child in any way -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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