Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[ILuvMyCelica95]

~AN ABORTION IS AN ABORTION NO MATTER THE SITUATION ~ EXCUSES ARE EXCUSES ~

Y THE HELL DO ALL U GUYS KEEP SAYING HER THIS HER THAT Y DOESNT THE GUY HAVE A SAY IT TAKES TO NOT JUST HER !!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF U CANT HANDLE THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF HAVING A KID THEN DONT HAVE SEX OR BE SMART ABOUT IT .... THIS SUBJECT GETS ME GOING NO ONE WILL EVER AGREE ON THIS THATS THE WAY ARE WORLD IS .... SADLY TO SAY

~ABORTION IS AN ABORTION EITHER WAY U WANNA BELIEVE ITS RIGHT OR WRONG ~ I WAS JUST STATING MY OWN OPION THATS ALLLLL ~ AND U WONT UNDERSTAND UNTIL U HAVE A KID~

mmmmk, Hi caps lock. I don’t think anyone is debating what and abortion is… we all know an abortion is an abortion… so I really don’t know why you keep saying that.
Second, everyone says HER because the woman is the one who has to go through 9months of carrying a child; they have to deal with changes in their bodies, and labor and all that. Someone correct me if I’m wrong here but I’m pretty sure that’s the gist of that.

Ok so the topic is moving in too many directions here. This is a question of if someone has the freedom to choose, not if it is right or wrong. That is your opinion. I have mixed feelings on the issue concerning if it is right or not, but I do think that you should have the right to choose what you want to do with your life; it doesn’t mean I condone it. I also think with the right information, availability of birth control, condoms, promoting safe sex, and the morning after pill, there won’t be a high demand for abortions. And I think that’s all I have to say right now.