Ladies I need some advice, Please help me! I don't want to lose her! Options

[CelicaST204]

I started dating this girl about a week ago and Tuesday night I had a dream where we were together and her mom was trying to make here move away and there was nothing I could do about it. so I was pleading with them both to let her stay, because I didn't want to let her go. (thats the jist of my dream) When I woke up I called her (7:00 a.m.) and told her what I was thinking and about my dream. after we got done talking, I felt horrible, like I scared her alittle. like I may have scared her away. I called back about noon, and apologized profuosly(spelling) telling her that I was still caught up in the dream and that I want things to be as they were before I called the first time. she said of course, but it just seems different. She is great, fun to be around and I just don't want to lose her this way. but what really got me scared is that on her aol profile it used to say "involved with a macho celica boi" now it says "involved with a Gt-Four celica boi" and one of my friends has a 93' all trac.(gt-four) I am so afraid right now and I need help on how to make things right again. any advice is gladly appreciated. thank you in advance for your responses.

[jayi12-15psi]

ok, I'm really sorry if this is mean, but you just need some experience with women. Granted I am only 21, but alot of this stuff is just common sense. You bought her boots? I'm sorry, but you should easily recognize that the second she asked you for the boots(did she ask for them?) she was testing your level of obsession. Once she got you to buy the boots, it just re-enforces her idea that she is worth so much to you that she can get you to do anything. You're her little bitch. You treated her to well and she at least got away with a new pair of boots and a little piece of your heart.

Will you buy me some boots? it's getting cold out here, and I'm sure I deserve a pair better than that shifty biatch.

general rule of thumb
treat the girls you're interested in, like you're not interested in them and treat the girls you're not interested in, like you're interested in them. You'll find you'll have alot more girls willing to put forth more effort into what ever relationship you want to pursue.

I think maybe we need a new forum related to relationship problems, then get some doctor phil wanna-be to moderate it.