Women, Is it all of them? Options

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

I'm upset with my girlfriend right now. I've been with her for 4 years now, and she still doesn't understand my passion for cars. You can all read what I've bought for my car in my info. It isn't much. But for some reason she thinks I buy stuff for it all the time. I was telling her I was thinking about bidding on a header online for my car and she got really mad at me. She said, "you don't even need a header, why are you wasting your money?" I just had a birthday, and I felt I should be aloud to maybe buy myself something for a birthday/chirstmas present. I've talked to everyone else in my life, friends and grandpa and mother. They all say, "it's your money, and if that's what you want to spend it on it's okay." I told my girlfriend that all those people said that, but it didn't matter really, because it doesn't matter what anyone else said she is the most important person in my life I can't do something unless she says it's okay. I can't stand her being mad at me. I told her I felt like she's controllling sometimes because she gets mad at me if I don't do exactly what she wants. She got mad at me and told me to spend my money on whatever I wanted and stop caring about what she thought, and it was irritating what I was doing. It feels like no matter what I do, she's mad at me and I can't make her happy. I love her. How do I get her to understand me, and except me?

[95CelicaST]

This is just like my g/f. She complains when I buy things for my car. I got a screw in my tire, and since I was looking to buy new wheels and stuff, I did just that. She gets mad at me. She even gets mad when I buy oil

"You dont need oil! You are waisting your money!!"
I can't wait when I tell her I am getting new shocks, she'll be like "You dont need that. Do whatever you want with your money blah blah blah."

Women do that, ya know? If they don't want you to do something they will tell you to go and do it. sometimes, just to piss her off, I'll go ahead and do it.


off topic, but my g/f told me this story of a girl in her Government class who thought that we had a President Rushmore, and thats how we got Mt. Rushmore.. and that Grover Cleveland made the game "red rover"..