Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[ILuvMyCelica95]

my final opion is i guess u dont understand until u have a child u dont know how much u love someone until u go through preg and giving birth and so on ....

That statement doesn’t even make sense. The argument is not that people don’t understand that giving birth and having a child is a wonderful thing. The argument is whether someone who is pregnant should have the choice to abort their pregnancy or not.

OK I GUESS U KNOW EVERYTHING SOOO NO ONE REPLY SHE KNOWS IT ALL SHE WINS PLUS NO ONE WILL EVER AGREEE ON THIS SOOOOOOOO IT SHOULD BE CLOSED

Your ignorance amuses me. I never said I was right, and I do agree that no one will agree on this topic, but your previous statement about “your final opinion” doesn’t really make sense because that is not what the dispute is about. I was merely pointing that out to you, and there is no need for the caps lock, it’s quite aggravating.