Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[scothaniel]

Abortion shouldn't be used as a form of birth control... there are plenty of options for that. I've seen women who have had more then 3 abortions and they should be sterilized in my opinion. But to eliminate abortion would be foolish; and to think that banning abortion would stop them from happening is simply nieve. All it would do is create the same under ground network of doctors that existed in the 60's and 70's, and increase the risks involved to the women. My wife and I are both pro-choice, and we would be willing to fight (protest) to keep the right available, though we couldn't never go through with an abortion ourselves.

Pro Choice is the same as Pro Death / Killing.

You make Death and Killing sound like its a bad thing! There are plenty of people in the world that shouldn't be alive - Violent criminals, sociopathic lunitics, genocidal dictators, whoever designed the Chrysler K-car....

[WannabeGT4]

Abortion shouldn't be used as a form of birth control... there are plenty of options for that. I've seen women who have had more then 3 abortions and they should be sterilized in my opinion. But to eliminate abortion would be foolish; and to think that banning abortion would stop them from happening is simply nieve. All it would do is create the same under ground network of doctors that existed in the 60's and 70's, and increase the risks involved to the women. My wife and I are both pro-choice, and we would be willing to fight (protest) to keep the right available, though we couldn't never go through with an abortion ourselves.

Pro Choice is the same as Pro Death / Killing.

You make Death and Killing sound like its a bad thing! There are plenty of people in the world that shouldn't be alive - Violent criminals, sociopathic lunitics, genocidal dictators, whoever designed the Chrysler K-car....

OK, but I don't see babies on that list.