Secret abortions Options

[ToYCeLi8]

Well Thanksgiving just passing and Xmas coming up, all these family holidays coming up, I have been spending more time w/ my family and friends as you are. Also meeting newborn baby cousins.

All this baby talk brought up subjects about the starting of new families and abortions, unfortunatly.

Some of my cousins feel they are ready to start a family other don't and what not. But when abortions came up, a friend of my aunts spoke about an abortion she had when she was younger and never told the father. It turned into a crazy night I rather not go into but here is my question or topic for this thread is, and its aimed at the men:

If a girl you had relations with, YES EVEN A 1 NIGHT STAND, got pregnant with YOUR child (don't argue, its YOURS), and she had an abortion, would you want to know before she did it? Or not be told at all and be fine with it after its done?

Yes you can state your reasons why you would or wouldn't have a baby now.

For me, I would DEFINATLY want to know. Even though it might not be planned, I feel if it took 2 people to make a child, then those 2 people should decide whether or not to keep the child. Right now I am going through some rough times financially so I know I cannot raise a child. My mind set isn't ready either. I really don't plan on having a child until I am about 28, so 6 more years. An abortion is a major descision so it does take time to make sure it is the one you want to make and not regret it. Realistically, I would prefer to put the baby up for adoption. Save a life and help a family.

Mods: I hope this doesn't start a war on 6gc, its just something I took serious when it was so close to my family. So members please do not attack other people's opinions.

David

[snapshotgt]

Ok people..here it is…

I’m all for free choice…and that whole thing…BUT when one can not make a responsible decision for life, she/he should not be making the decision…

Now rape is another issue….but my stand it the same…

For example, some of us might not have been here if a rape baby’s mother was not courageous enough to have the child…somewhere along the chain of our relatives, I’m sure you’d see that if your relative had had a abortion…you would not be here…everybody plays a role…

This probably sounds jumbled…but I’m trying to say basically that you would not be here writing on this forum if one of you relatives (no matter how far back) had had an abortion…

More babies have been aborted than if you were to total up ALL the deaths in ALL the wars…just to give you an idea of the magnitude…very, very sad.

Hope this one post might change someone’s view on this subject…ABORTION IS NO WAY TO DEAL WITH THIS PROBLEM…sex is a very sacred thing - - people need to rethink wtf they’re doing. And no, condoms and pills are NOT the answer…

-snapshotgt