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[Celica_Fan]

I call this chick everynight and I am speaking to her next minute I run outta things to say I kinda like her a bit I'm really shy and it's pissing me off tonight I had to go coz I forgot what I was going to tell her she gives me one sentence after I ask her what she likes and I want to be able to make a descent conversation any tips this is really making me mad. and I made myself look like a dick and tonight she isn't on msn.

This post has been edited by Celica_Fan: Dec 16, 2005 - 1:31 AM

[Cutrara]

if she has a myspace page, tell her you never want to see her again. Especially if shes attractive b/c then ur gonna have her 'friends' getting her # and stuff and it WILL cause problems. Unless you dont mind ur girl giving her # out, but thats another story. Anyways, do NOT call her, if she calls u then its cool to talk, but dont stay on the phone for hours on end b/c then ur friendship gets really dull, fast. So just remember, if shes the one for you, and you take things slow, then you will have the rest of your life to tell her everything you ever wanted to say. If shes not the one for you, then think of it as you didnt waste your breath on that BIAAAAATTCCCHHH. lol. But what I suggest you do is call her tuesday around 11am (depending on what she does for a living) and ask her if she wants to get some lunch, talk for a little while, drop her off or w/e. then DONT CALL until thursday afternoon, and then ask the oh so obvious question "so what are you doing friday night?" If she says she has no plans really, then thats what I like to call an "ASK ME OUT YOU F*CKING RETARD" dating signal. Oh and on the lunch make sure you bring her some flowers, if you live by a major highway there are always some bastards selling nice flowers for really cheap. Like for my last GF I bought her 3 dozen roses (for no reason) for only $11 and I guess she really liked em cuz the sex that night was amazing, lol. Anywho, after a few dates ask her if she wants to hang out with you and your friends and go do something that night, especially where you can be yourself. Girls like guys who are confident, they want someone to hold them by the hand and be fearless and show them where to go in life. After a few dates and a few nights with her and your friends, see if she wants 2 bring some of her friends along when u guys go and hang out, your friends will love you for it and if her friends start talking good about u 2 her, then your golden. The last thing u want is 2 piss off her friends b/c then all they do is talk **** behind your back and it more or less ****s up your relationship. And then lastly after hanging out for 6 or 7 weeks, when your pretty sure you know her, ask her out. Most guys after highschool think its retarded to ask it, but trust me, they love it Oh, and while you are on one of your dates, if you even think for 1 second that its the right time to kiss her, then go for it. Because if you dont, they know. I dont know f*cking how, but they do, and they will put a really bad thought in the back of your mind, kinda like voodoo. Anywho, thats all my advice for now, holla atcha boy and let me know how things went.

Ladies and gentlemen, the pimp has spoken. lol

I think it's been said before in this topic, but talk about her all the time, and relate your past experiences to it. Ask lots of questions. Personally, I hate talk to ANYBODY on the phone. I think it requires too much devotion, I'd rather talk to someone in person so I can see them, or over IM so I can be on 6gc.net.