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 Feb 24, 2006 - 10:07 AM
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Well, I've noticed there is alot of frustrations going on when it comes to significant others here at 6gc. Like the rest, im going through some hard times and i was just wonder what the rest of you guys and gals do when it comes to making decisions. Do you use you head, or do you act on your heart. Me personally, I use to act on my feelings, wear my heart on my sleve, but i've learned i can't really do that, so im trying to use my head alot more.
p.s this was supose to be a poll, but i guess this works anyways..im computer dumb, and can't make the poll thingy work This post has been edited by OrbitalGT95: Feb 24, 2006 - 11:50 AM --------------------  Now SR powered |
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Feb 26, 2006 - 1:36 AM
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I still use both. A year ago I was cheated on by a girl I dated for 3 1/2 years. I'm in a new relationship now thats 3 months old. She's sort of different than the girls I typically would date. She has a **** load of friends and they are all people I don't know anything about. She's had a past with some things that I really don't care for. I have a suspicion everytime something doesn't seem right. I have no real reason to not trust her, but the simple fact that once upon a time I had a girlfriend who was "my other half" betray me so hard that I keepy my guard up almost constantly. I gotta protect my own interest in the relationship too. I don't want to hurt like I did just one year ago. I think the way things are going right now, this girl could be a girl I spend a long long time with...but with time, I will be able to trust her fully.
I totally agree with the theory that once trust is lost, it is very hard to regain. losing trust changes the perspective so much. It is way too easy to get crapped on by even the most trustworthy people out there. I don't like trust anymore. Trust is an easy way to get caught off gaurd and hurt more than you ever had to if you had your gaurd up. Maybe thats why your first real love is one you remember so much, because everything was so innocent then. Love is so hard... --------------------  |
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Feb 26, 2006 - 10:59 AM
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QUOTE(Yota @ Feb 26, 2006 - 1:36 AM) [snapback]399803[/snapback] Maybe thats why your first real love is one you remember so much, because everything was so innocent then. Love is so hard... omg AMEN! -------------------- lissa | 1997 Celica Convertible
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OrbitalGT95 head, or heart Feb 24, 2006 - 10:07 AM
ILuvMyCelica95 I try to think with my head, but my heart tends to... Feb 24, 2006 - 10:14 AM
97lestyousay QUOTE(ILuvMyCelica95 @ Feb 24, 2006 - 7... Feb 24, 2006 - 9:35 PM
Jen QUOTE(ILuvMyCelica95 @ Feb 24, 2006 - 10... Feb 25, 2006 - 1:53 AM johnsonius_87 I usually go with my heart. I try to think things ... Feb 24, 2006 - 10:22 AM soulshadow See wat your head says, then if your heart disagre... Feb 24, 2006 - 10:28 AM crismillencolin All in the heart Feb 24, 2006 - 10:36 AM CelicaBuddy Heart!
But use your head too when times are ... Feb 24, 2006 - 11:21 AM SamuraiGuy mainly, my heart. however, i let my mind help supp... Feb 24, 2006 - 11:41 AM creis head, my heart does not work like that anymore. I... Feb 24, 2006 - 10:15 PM Supersprynt Go with your gut. Feb 24, 2006 - 11:54 PM Kwanza26 Head... the mind is a powerful tool to waste to th... Feb 25, 2006 - 12:11 AM lagos QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Feb 24, 2006 - 11... Feb 25, 2006 - 3:11 AM zachattack15 haha I had a little too much to drink tonight and ... Feb 25, 2006 - 3:22 AM lil_lissa heart?? what heart?? mines been broken into a mill... Feb 25, 2006 - 6:16 PM bloodrain my moto is
"head is always better"
and... Feb 25, 2006 - 6:25 PM dustin15brown I use my heart if someone hasn't broken my tru... Feb 25, 2006 - 7:40 PM Consynx ...you know my answer to this.
but my thoughts on... Feb 26, 2006 - 1:14 AM creamed_corn Head or heart? Nonsense.
I made my decisions base... Feb 26, 2006 - 1:24 AM celicarus QUOTE(creamed_corn @ Feb 26, 2006 - 12... Feb 27, 2006 - 9:41 PM CelicaBuddy QUOTE(Yota @ Feb 26, 2006 - 1:36 AM)... Feb 27, 2006 - 1:23 AM XxAxnCelica95xX QUOTE(creamed_corn @ Feb 26, 2006 - 1... Feb 26, 2006 - 2:02 AM Valo666 ^ not true...my frist true love..nothin was innoce... Feb 27, 2006 - 12:22 AM ThrwnSprkz do what now???
ya... i unoo'
my advice is a... Feb 27, 2006 - 7:59 PM OrbitalGT95 QUOTE(ThrwnSprkz @ Feb 28, 2006 - 12... Feb 27, 2006 - 8:40 PM jayi12-15psi weiner Feb 27, 2006 - 8:54 PM |
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