head, or heart Options

[OrbitalGT95]

Well, I've noticed there is alot of frustrations going on when it comes to significant others here at 6gc. Like the rest, im going through some hard times and i was just wonder what the rest of you guys and gals do when it comes to making decisions. Do you use you head, or do you act on your heart. Me personally, I use to act on my feelings, wear my heart on my sleve, but i've learned i can't really do that, so im trying to use my head alot more.

p.s this was supose to be a poll, but i guess this works anyways..im computer dumb, and can't make the poll thingy work

This post has been edited by OrbitalGT95: Feb 24, 2006 - 11:50 AM

[Yota]

I still use both. A year ago I was cheated on by a girl I dated for 3 1/2 years. I'm in a new relationship now thats 3 months old. She's sort of different than the girls I typically would date. She has a **** load of friends and they are all people I don't know anything about. She's had a past with some things that I really don't care for. I have a suspicion everytime something doesn't seem right. I have no real reason to not trust her, but the simple fact that once upon a time I had a girlfriend who was "my other half" betray me so hard that I keepy my guard up almost constantly. I gotta protect my own interest in the relationship too. I don't want to hurt like I did just one year ago. I think the way things are going right now, this girl could be a girl I spend a long long time with...but with time, I will be able to trust her fully.

I totally agree with the theory that once trust is lost, it is very hard to regain. losing trust changes the perspective so much. It is way too easy to get crapped on by even the most trustworthy people out there. I don't like trust anymore. Trust is an easy way to get caught off gaurd and hurt more than you ever had to if you had your gaurd up.

Maybe thats why your first real love is one you remember so much, because everything was so innocent then.

Love is so hard...

[lil_lissa]

Maybe thats why your first real love is one you remember so much, because everything was so innocent then.

Love is so hard...

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AMEN!

[CelicaBuddy]

Maybe thats why your first real love is one you remember so much, because everything was so innocent then.

Love is so hard...

Agreed!

My last relationship... lasted like a year... I was just so blinded thinking I was in love and crap like that that I didnt even realize how bad things were... Yeah there were good times, but none that could out wiegh the crap he did to me... When he got angry all hell broke loose and then bad things would happen

Listening to your heart has its advantages, but sometimes your heart doesnt know $h!t... Which is why you gotta use your head... Unfortunatly I never did... But I learned a HUGE lesson...

2 weeks after I got outa that year long relationship I got with my new guy and we've been going very well for 2 months now... I couldnt be happier, and he couldnt either Its kinda a shock tho getting with someone so new after an ordeal like that... My new bf and my ex are complete opposites when it comes to temper... which is a REAL good thing...

When it comes to loving and loosing and loving all over again... Yeah it is an endless cycle, but I like to keep my hopes up... Cuz you never know when someone actually worth keeping comes around... Your trust is something that always falls and builds itself back up again, its part of life... Life is too short to be sittin around heart broken, angry about betrayal, or whatever. It shouldnt matter how many tiems you've been broken, if anything that makes you stronger as a person and know what to look out for... At least for me anyways...

But then again... Im just 17... what do I know? lol

This post has been edited by CelicaBuddy: Feb 27, 2006 - 1:26 AM