relationship bs, I need a little vent Options

[saleeka]

In a nutshell, i'm frustrated that i dont belive i cant trust the person i've been seeing for awhile now... The part that makes it hurt is that fact that i feel like I've found sombody who makes me a very happy person, someone who i enjoy spending my very rare free time with, moreso than anyone else in the past few years... so things start off very well, and now they have slowed down with less communication between one another, and the red flag to me is we have stopped having sex.. (its only been about a week, but thats longer than we EVER have gone)... the relationship has gone from very passionate to friendship casual, and this is what worries me... Ive asked if somthing is up, and i get the "no, why do you feel that way" response, but somehow i seem to be getting a sense that its not totally true. My question, I guess is, has anyone else been right about their instinct when their relationship seems to head in this direction? i feel like I need some reassurace one way or another right now...

[Blakout16]

i've recently had a run in with my partner (which is a girl on the other hand) but still, the first thing to always go is the sexual things because they dont share the same feelings anymore, or are desensitized by the frequency of it. you basically just have to sit down with you're partner/bf, whatever the title is of your lover and just 1on1 figure out how to fix things, its the only way you're ever going to have a good relationship is communication + willingness.

best of luck saleeka btw i really liked your poems you put on here a year ago, i just got reminded of them. (or how*********** ago)