relationship bs, I need a little vent Options

[saleeka]

In a nutshell, i'm frustrated that i dont belive i cant trust the person i've been seeing for awhile now... The part that makes it hurt is that fact that i feel like I've found sombody who makes me a very happy person, someone who i enjoy spending my very rare free time with, moreso than anyone else in the past few years... so things start off very well, and now they have slowed down with less communication between one another, and the red flag to me is we have stopped having sex.. (its only been about a week, but thats longer than we EVER have gone)... the relationship has gone from very passionate to friendship casual, and this is what worries me... Ive asked if somthing is up, and i get the "no, why do you feel that way" response, but somehow i seem to be getting a sense that its not totally true. My question, I guess is, has anyone else been right about their instinct when their relationship seems to head in this direction? i feel like I need some reassurace one way or another right now...

[WannabeGT4]

All I was trying to say with the post that got deleted was that sometimes an unknown physical ailment (either with you or your partner) could affect a person emotionally. If he doesn't want to stir the chocolate it might not be because he doesn't love you. There may be a physical barrier that is preventing him from expressing himself. It just might be a good idea to stick it out for a little while and see if things get better.