Depression Options

[6th_celi_vert]

My GF of 2 years just told me that she wanted to spend time apart. I have never had pain like this before. I cant stop thinking about her, and im extrememly depressed. All i can do is cry, and im also having trouble eating. It just hurts so much. Does it ever get any better? (we were planning on getting married, even though were both 19)

[JonCars17]

Your talking like your back together by using the word "was". Was is a past tense word meaning she isn't anymore, Is is a present tense word meaning she still is.

I think she has a good reason to separate, but honestly I would have told her "I'll postpone the marriage or end the engagement if your afraid of marriage but lets work this out". I too say there may be hope, but either way just do something like hang out with friends, work out, get an extra job or just go for a drive. Me personally, I go for drives when I'm in a bad mood or just feeling lonely. I just like to site see and I normally just think my problems away. Plus no one can tell you to turn the radio down when your driving alone . I haven't had many relationships and the ones I've had weren't long at all, but you still get attached and like being with them. My last one was only 5 days long -_- I was over her in a day. She was just an immature brat, I'll find someone someday. BTW, What does her parents have to say about all of this?

This post has been edited by JonCars17: May 23, 2006 - 10:12 PM