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[XS4lv1Truch0x]

damn.

well i deleted my lil poem coz i dun need everyone in my business.

i put it here 4 those that would help me not 4 an example.

well thax 4 da interest.

This post has been edited by XS4lv1Truch0x: Aug 28, 2006 - 2:48 AM

[bloodrain]

Meeting girls is alot easier than you think. The first thing you have to do is get rid of your nervousness. Now you might say "But bloodrain, being nervous is a natural reaction" and im going to tell you "wrong." Being nervous is a sign of insecruity and girls pick up on that like like a $100 bill at the strip club. The easiest way (I found) to get over your nervousness is simple, go out and meet girls! Now im not saying pick the hottest girl you can find and try to get her number, what I did was just go to a mall and try to start a conversation with EVERY girl you can. While I was doing my report in highschool I literally tryed to talk to about 300 girls in one day. Was I trying to get there number? Most of them the answer is no. Did I get every number I tryed? Haha hell has a better chance of it freezing over. Did I learn anything? Yes... I trained myself not to be nervous when approaching a girl. Are you nervous when you drive to work when you first sit down in your drivers seat and turn the key? Of course not (unless you live down here in Miami then you better be scared, lol) anywho, when you started driving you were most of the time nervous, you didnt know what was going to happen, how things were going to react, and how things would end up. If your nervous from talking to a girl, there are ALOT worse things to be scared of. For instance driving, you could get killed. With a girl, whats the worst she can do, say no thanks? The first thing you need to do is get over the 'fear' of approaching a girl, when your walking thru the mall and see a beautiful girl, you sub-consciencly make 11 assumptions about her. The first few arent important, but the 5 and 6th thought is usaully "she already has a boyfriend" or "shes probably too good to talk to me (or something along those lines)." Now if you think your the first person to think "man, shes so good looking" your dead wrong, but if you can get the courage to talk to her, your already ahead of the 90% of the guys who were too shy to say anything. Now what I seriously want you to do is this, go to a crowded place and talk to girls. Like I said I literally had to do it 327 times (to be exact) before I felt comfortable walking up to any girl and starting a conversation. And for everyone who is reading this hoping to find the 'magical pickup line' is going to be very depressed, because unfortunatly there is no such thing. The 'pick up' lines that I found work best are actually pretty simple. First you have to base it off the area your in. And for my sake we will imagin we are in a mall. You see a girl walking by HERSELF (approaching a group of girls is VERY difficult, especially if you are trying to pick one girl) anywho, you notice the girl is walking in your general direction and when shes close enough all you say is "Excuse me miss, I just find that those *insert item here* looks amazing on you," or "excuse me miss, I just love a woman with good posture" Now all you do is smile and walk away. Now what this did was pretty simple, it f*cks with there head. We will use the line with posture for reference. The first thing they think when a guy approachs them is "hes gonna ask me for my number" so what you did with that icebreaker (since its not really a pick up line) is 1) you made her ASSUME you complimented her, when in all reality you did nothing of the sort or you just noted something she had on 2) you threw her a curve ball by NOT asking her name and number. Now this will either do 2 things for you, 1) she will ignore you/say thank you or 2) smile back. Now if she does #1 leave and continue to the next girl, but if she smiles with a good genuine smile that is key for the pick up line "My name is SoAndSo" then go from there. Now, something to remember, MAKE STRONG EYE CONTACT, if she looks at you on the initial look, DO NOT look away from her until she looks away first. Strong eye contact shows your strong and not afraid, if she looks at you and looks LEFT, she has a 95% chance of being interested in you, if she looks to her right its only at about a 15%. Anywho, if you want more situations feel free to ask, I could go on forever with this stuff.


p.s.
When you insert a part, stay FAR FAR away from her ass, boobs, or other sexual parts. Small things like earrings, her eyes, rings, eye liner, and make-up (lip stick, ect.) will work the best.

"Excuse me miss, I just had to tell you that you have extremly beautiful eyes."


oh and idiot stick, by having a drunk friend go talk to the girl, he has approximatly 84% higher chances than you for getting her name and number, lol. Simply because in her mind she says "he's too scared to come talk to me"

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 16, 2006 - 10:45 PM