What do I do?, im 21 years old Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ok so I still live at home and have a snoop of a mother. She has numerous times gone thru my room and has made an account on Myspace. When she tells me something on my page is inappropriate we erupt at eachother and she tells me how I look like a Hoe in some of my pics. so I end up taking them down and she promises that she will not go on and check anymore cuz I tell her that its the reason I dont tell her about anything in my life cuz she snoops for the answers. Well guess what she did last night? She snooped on my page again. Keep in mind that my profile is set to private so I dont know how she saw two pics and I went thru my friend list and couldnt find any that i didnt know and thought maybe she made a fake profile. So now I dont know what to do. Im over being 21 years old and having my mother snoop around. Ive grown up a good kid..never did a drug, never smoked a cigarette, didnt start being interested in boys till 17, tell them where im going when i walk out the door, etc (not saying ur a bad kid if u do anything i just stated) So i dont know why at 21 im still being treated like im under the age of 18. My parents arent strict. Im allowed to go out till whenever and what not but its like cuz I dont open up to her about every detail of my life (pretty much no detail) she feels the need to snoop.

[97sccelica]

Dad is almost the exact way but if he found out I had 8 guns he would of kicked me out by now

hehe

the men in my family love guns.

as a joke i was walking around with one of my guns tucked in my belt, saying i was ready to greet my sister's prom date who was supposed to arrive in about 10 min.

my grandfather and his brother laughed hard, said i was a good man, and asked to see the gun. hell, everyone thought it was pretty funny, except my sister

and i did put the gun away when the prom date finally arrived.

now for the original topic

there pretty much is no privacy for me in my house. all my mail is opened before i get it, my mom always calls me to see where i am and gets mad when i forget to tell her that i am leaving. she wants to know every thing.

does it bother me, not really. i am 20 years old and im used to it. it bother's one of my friends, oddly enough. he is always telling me to make my mom stop. i really dont care, it makes her happy and comfortable to know where i am all the time. she never tries to stop me from doing anything, just tells me to be safe. that and as far as im conserned, if you are living at the expense of your parents, it doesnt matter how old you are, you are at their mercy.