What do I do?, im 21 years old Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ok so I still live at home and have a snoop of a mother. She has numerous times gone thru my room and has made an account on Myspace. When she tells me something on my page is inappropriate we erupt at eachother and she tells me how I look like a Hoe in some of my pics. so I end up taking them down and she promises that she will not go on and check anymore cuz I tell her that its the reason I dont tell her about anything in my life cuz she snoops for the answers. Well guess what she did last night? She snooped on my page again. Keep in mind that my profile is set to private so I dont know how she saw two pics and I went thru my friend list and couldnt find any that i didnt know and thought maybe she made a fake profile. So now I dont know what to do. Im over being 21 years old and having my mother snoop around. Ive grown up a good kid..never did a drug, never smoked a cigarette, didnt start being interested in boys till 17, tell them where im going when i walk out the door, etc (not saying ur a bad kid if u do anything i just stated) So i dont know why at 21 im still being treated like im under the age of 18. My parents arent strict. Im allowed to go out till whenever and what not but its like cuz I dont open up to her about every detail of my life (pretty much no detail) she feels the need to snoop.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

She says its weird for a 21 year old girl to act like this way towars her mother and tell her NOTHING of whats going on in her life. and I dont see it weird. I just dont feel I need my mom to know whats going on. Shes not my friend..she raised me and thats good enough. I dont need my parents to be my best friends.

oh and PS

MOM IF YOURE READING THIS - HI!

[mzztoyota]

She says its weird for a 21 year old girl to act like this way towars her mother and tell her NOTHING of whats going on in her life. and I dont see it weird. I just dont feel I need my mom to know whats going on. Shes not my friend..she raised me and thats good enough. I dont need my parents to be my best friends.

oh and PS

MOM IF YOURE READING THIS - HI!

Hey girl,

I'm 20, and I was a "well-behaved" girl growing up too, and my mom is the exact same way.

The whole island is convinced that she is insane.

I live on a 13 x 3 mile island and I go to college here, and I live in the dorms even though my mother lives 15 minutes away. Whenever people ask why I don't just save myself some money and live with her, I tell them "you haven't met her." She's a cool woman and all, just an over-protective mother.

Your mom doesn't need to be your friend, doesn't need to know what's going on all the time...you are your own adult now, she's not the adult that solves your problems anymore. Stick it out as long as you can, but start making plans to move out NOW! Look into apartments, try and find a room mate if that will help, etc...

...and if you want to run away to the Caribbean, PM me!