What do I do?, im 21 years old Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ok so I still live at home and have a snoop of a mother. She has numerous times gone thru my room and has made an account on Myspace. When she tells me something on my page is inappropriate we erupt at eachother and she tells me how I look like a Hoe in some of my pics. so I end up taking them down and she promises that she will not go on and check anymore cuz I tell her that its the reason I dont tell her about anything in my life cuz she snoops for the answers. Well guess what she did last night? She snooped on my page again. Keep in mind that my profile is set to private so I dont know how she saw two pics and I went thru my friend list and couldnt find any that i didnt know and thought maybe she made a fake profile. So now I dont know what to do. Im over being 21 years old and having my mother snoop around. Ive grown up a good kid..never did a drug, never smoked a cigarette, didnt start being interested in boys till 17, tell them where im going when i walk out the door, etc (not saying ur a bad kid if u do anything i just stated) So i dont know why at 21 im still being treated like im under the age of 18. My parents arent strict. Im allowed to go out till whenever and what not but its like cuz I dont open up to her about every detail of my life (pretty much no detail) she feels the need to snoop.

[DomGT]

It's not weird that you want to independent, and seperated from you mom. By your mom forcing herself closing to you, she is actually forcing you further away...

The fact is that some parents are more controlling than others, and you can't do anything to change your mom. She is who she is.

It's expensive to live anywhere, but you gotta do what you gotta do, in order to keep your sanity. Your treating eachother like your 16, not 21. By moving out, you will both learn a lot about yourselves, and your relationship (it only gets better, I know this because I've been there and know exactly how your feeling).

My advice, move out, mature a lot more, and good luck to both of you!