someone backed into me..., i was...uh eh... not in the best mood...? Options

[Griff]

so im leaving school, someone was like 'dude kelly hit your car'
so i go to look at it sure enough...she hit it, and left.
you could say...i was pissed, i know this girl so i go over to her house...blah blah, hopefully i can get it sorted that they pay for ALL damages and i can...not ruin the relationship..(that prolly aint gunna happen, why? well cause its probbally gunna be a pretty penny for a very 'minor' thing in there eyes)

here are pics:







the damage isnt very much, but if someone ever sees waht time and effort i spend on the little things on my car, they know this is going to kill me to look at, even if i clean it up.

it looks at least a new tail light (the taillight is also pushed out somewhat on the outside making it stick out), maybe upgrade to some JDM's or afterburners...

and one thing i dont really know what or how big it is, the middle piece,(that the lisence plate is on) its pushed in, i need to find a part number for it, i have no clue what $$ thats going to cost. and my wing (even though hard to see) has a few good chunks missing, and is now loose...along with the paint scratches with the whole deal, they wont understand when this turns out to be expensive, for a little eye sore.

by the way, does anyone know what part exactly in the middle (where the lisence plate is) cost $ or the #?

and heck, if anyone has some psychology tips to make this go smoother...i wouldent mind that.

[ArizonaRed]

tell them to give you $50 for the tail light and 300 for the body work to fix panel. put the $50 towards JDM tails and get the minor body work done and take the spoiler off and have them seal the holes while theyre at it. It would look sweet afterwards. Then you can sell the spoiler on here. I had minor body work done like that for about 300. Can never tell it got backed into. It was a very small hit like yours.