Howd you meet your significant other? Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I asked tina this in her SO YEAH thread but I was kinda interested in how people met their boyfriends/girlfriends/wifes/husbands/etc.

[Glitch001]

Missing someone a lot is love? couldnt that be lust? or perhaps maybe you miss your old daily routine that you had settled into. I agree you may have strong feelings but LOVE? But then agian, who really knows what love is. I totally agree, there was my friends cousin, she dated some dude for like 9 months pulled the whole "married" thing on myspace, I MET THE MAN I LOVE, hes 17 hes not a MAN. I think if your in highschool you dont have a CLUE about life, let alone love. I hate hearing how im wrong about how in love they are. I want to honestly line these emo boys and girls up and have them all answer the same question to show how SIMILAR they all are. How ununique their relationship really is, Erik has it right, all it is, is a strong friendship. Someone you enjoy being around.

Please dont take it as an attack on your relationship, I just enjoy taking an overview on ones life, dont just accept things as is, check things out in a deeper look. I could name 3-4 people even from this site, who are the most childish emo needy people when it comes to those of the oppisite sex. LOL. Oh well I suppose there are people who enjoy that quality.

This post has been edited by Glitch001: Oct 20, 2006 - 3:44 PM

[saleeka]

I think if your in highschool you dont have a CLUE about life, let alone love.

I don't really agree with this... Coming from my perspective, when I met the man I dated when i was 16 (he was 17), we WERE naieve as to what love was, what to expect, ect. However, through it all, I can honestly say that I looked at the sitation with a completly open mind, and I know that I put the effort in to the relationship to have it be what real love is, and should be. I didden't question who he was, or what he wanted, and I diddent put up a front as to who I was and what I wanted. We had, for a short time, the most honest and pure relationship i've ever had up until this point, and to this day i still judge all relationships I have on the basic foundations we laid. Yes, in the end, we diddent stay together, and we know now that we arent really meant to be together... However, I did love him, and to this day I still do. Just because circumstances don't work in one's favor dosent nessicarily mean that the love wasn't real... I didden't put conditions or restraints onto him and how he should be, and when he decided he wanted somthing different, I felt crushed and completly alone, but at the same time I knew that having me wish for an outcome that he couldent live with was 100% selfish on my part, and it wasnt what love should be... with that said, I do think it's unfair to equate age and experence as to what true love is...