 Is there such a thing as, "JUST CHILLIN'"?, Between a single guy and girl? |
 Nov 18, 2006 - 2:37 PM
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I ask b/c Im BORED! lol.. No, I still believe that a GUY and GIRL CANT be"BEST FRIENDS" or JUST FRIENDS if both are single and both straight. A call after 10pm is considered a BOOTY CALL. All those types of scenarios. I think there is always that sexual tension there?
Im also bringing this up b/c last night I went 2 "just chill" with a classmate at the Santa Monica Promenade for a few hours. But nothing even close to sexual happened. NO holding hands, NO Kissing, NO hugs, Not being when we said good-bye, shoot, Not even a good-bye hand shake,haha. Only time I kinda hugged her was when a bum wouldnt leave us alone and I grabbed her closer to me to walk away. So now, am I being a hypocrite? Im not gunna lie, she is DAMN GOOD LOOKIN! But I am TRYING 2 "just be friends" with her. Oh, and we're are goin to the movies in a bit with her 2 kids, then to see the Lion King Musical on the 28th with her daughter. So what to do? What do you guys think about this whole thing? David |
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Nov 18, 2006 - 2:45 PM
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just to make sure,
she's single with two kids. a woman that has kids doesn't behave the same way as a girl with no kids. usually having a baby makes the woman be more serius about a relationship, don't wanna play around anymore and stuff like that, so before she gets the wrong impression ( she may think you want something serius ) make sure she knows what you want, don't wait for her to figure it out; things can go wayyy wrong if you wait for her to find out. --------------------  |
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Nov 19, 2006 - 3:36 AM
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QUOTE(Culpable04 @ Nov 18, 2006 - 1:45 PM) [snapback]503569[/snapback] just to make sure, she's single with two kids. a woman that has kids doesn't behave the same way as a girl with no kids. usually having a baby makes the woman be more serius about a relationship, don't wanna play around anymore and stuff like that, so before she gets the wrong impression ( she may think you want something serius ) make sure she knows what you want, don't wait for her to figure it out; things can go wayyy wrong if you wait for her to find out. lol, YES! Shes single with two kids. Then I do and wouldnt mind a serious relationship with her. She so far is a real kewl girl. I dont want to play around with her either. I think my thing is, I dunno if she would take ME SERIOUS being a younger guy? But today she did tell me I am proving to be different from the other 19-25 y/o that hit on her. And different in a "VERY GOOD WAY", is what she said.  And Sinner96st, DUH! I want to sleep with her its been like 6 months since... yea, u know...  , but yea, I still would want a serious relationship with her after. I dunno? Im wierd. So was our evening at the promenade a DATE? or what? Same with 2day, when I we went to the movies with her 2 kids? Was that a "date"? Let me know what u guys/girls think!? Adios, David |
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Nov 19, 2006 - 5:38 AM
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QUOTE(ToYCeLi8 @ Nov 19, 2006 - 8:36 AM) [snapback]503691[/snapback] [T]oday she did tell me I am ... different in a "VERY GOOD WAY", is what she said. Well clearly she is thinking about it and wants to get closer, too. This post has been edited by BloodyStupidDavey: Jun 16, 2007 - 12:07 PM -------------------- Davey
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