Is there such a thing as, "JUST CHILLIN'"?, Between a single guy and girl? Options

[ToYCeLi8]

I ask b/c Im BORED! lol.. No, I still believe that a GUY and GIRL CANT be"BEST FRIENDS" or JUST FRIENDS if both are single and both straight. A call after 10pm is considered a BOOTY CALL. All those types of scenarios. I think there is always that sexual tension there?

Im also bringing this up b/c last night I went 2 "just chill" with a classmate at the Santa Monica Promenade for a few hours. But nothing even close to sexual happened. NO holding hands, NO Kissing, NO hugs, Not being when we said good-bye, shoot, Not even a good-bye hand shake,haha. Only time I kinda hugged her was when a bum wouldnt leave us alone and I grabbed her closer to me to walk away.

So now, am I being a hypocrite? Im not gunna lie, she is DAMN GOOD LOOKIN! But I am TRYING 2 "just be friends" with her. Oh, and we're are goin to the movies in a bit with her 2 kids, then to see the Lion King Musical on the 28th with her daughter. So what to do? What do you guys think about this whole thing?

David

[Culpable04]

My best friend use to be a girl. Now she's my girlfriend =D

Anyways.. If you sleep with the girl with 2 kids, be prepared for a relationship....or else, all of a sudden one of the kids are going to be yours! I think alot of girls with kids are going to be looking for serious relationship so their kids can have a dad.

Welp. Good luck. Nothing like Lion King to help you score =D haha

lol, see! Thats exactly my point. hahaha, Good one DriveCelicaST. But still JUST sleepin with her isnt the only thing on my mind. Shoot, like I said we havent had a good bye hand shake. Tuesday I think she is helping me with my paper, so maybe Ill get lucky then with sum physical hand contact . Like a high 5! lol

About the kids, well? Theyre cute, funny, and smart kids, so that always a good thing. They got along with me after the movie very well. Maybe after seeing the Lion King, ill use the daughter to trick her to all go eat back at her place. j/k

Im really just playin it by ear, so lets see what happens. Any pointers? Or signs/signals I should look out for? Damn, I feel like Im dating 4 the 1st time again. Its been almost 3 years since Ive kinda talked 2 a girl.. WHOA...

Adios,
David

make sure the previus man ( kids father ) is completely out of the picture. and don't try to rush any physical contact with her, women with kids always see this as a sing of you just wanting to sleep with her, also make sure she can support herself with no problem, so if she decide to be with you is because she really wants and not because she needs to. But I think you're doing just perfect.