Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. Options

[JonCars17]

I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.

Her Facts:
`Her ex-boyfriend still calls her
`He doesn't know about me
`When he calls, it is back to back until she answers
`He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single.
`She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before.
`He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers.
`He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there.
`He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating).


My facts:
`I have 4 classes with a female friend
`My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either)
`Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test.
`We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I)
`If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend
`The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test.

So far results have been from people I've asked are:
3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy)

Note:
I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it.

[Rayme]

seriously, 18 years old don't know anything about relationship. You need to grow up to realise that...Try older chick, at 23 you should'nt have to deal with that sorta "ex boyfriend ****". Dump her.

[CelicaBuddy]

seriously, 18 years old don't know anything about relationship. You need to grow up to realise that...Try older chick, at 23 you should'nt have to deal with that sorta "ex boyfriend ****". Dump her.

hahah hey now watch it

I'm 18... I use to be in the "kinda not really" similar situation JonCars gf is in... Except I told my my ex that I had a boyfriend which keep in mind i'm still with and we've been together a year. We even went through a period of not seeing each other for 2 months because my bf joined the army... I waited 2 months just for those 2 short days just to see him and I can honestly say I cant think of anything more amazing than those two days. I have been told numerous times that not many people could handle a relationship like this because its so hard to be away like that with lack of communication. Which it is... But it hasnt even effected us at all... in fact it made things stronger believe it or not... which is something I still dont really understand... hehe

But yeah... right after me and that ex broke up, I got with my current bf like 2 weeks later... My ex boyfriend kept calling and calling and stalking me basically, but I completely shut him out of my life. Which is what JonCars gf should have done...

I think it really depends on the person and their level of maturity, and not theyre age... Granted a lot of people 18 and under still dont know much, but there are some out there who are a lil different...